"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There's this girl I recently met her locker is next to mine we don't talk to each othe much. So for the past couple of weeks she would always ask me to wait for her so we can go to calss together and I always waited for her. Then she would call me boyfriend wen she saw me then she got back with her ex. So she stopped calling me boyfriend but she still wanted me to walk her to class lately everytime I walk her to class she always trys to find somebody for me to go out with or take to the dance. so does she like me or do I move on. She's also single again
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dunno, sounds like you hit the friend zone to me. I'd move on, especially if she's finding OTHER people for you to go on dates with etc.
 

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Learn how to write, and then come back.
 

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Shocker, don't you think you ought to lighten up a little? You just seem very abrasive sometimes.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigw said:
Shocker, don't you think you ought to lighten up a little? You just seem very abrasive sometimes.....
Huh?? That was abrasive? There was a thousand other things I considered saying, that would've probably gotten me banned...

Anyway, when else have I been an azzhole? I can't really recall, except telling a guy he sounded like a puzzy. And he did...
 

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The Shocker said:
Huh?? That was abrasive? There was a thousand other things I considered saying, that would've probably gotten me banned...

Anyway, when else have I been an azzhole? I can't really recall, except telling a guy he sounded like a puzzy. And he did...
Lol I don't mean to be rude, I was just commenting :)

Anyway, you have a point, but he's only learning mate :) Give him a chance.
 
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