"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't trust hotornot to rate your pic

ThinWhiteDuke

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I find the hotornot rating system unreliable. I threw a crappy pic of myself on there in which you can't even see my face and it's pulling an 8.something. I also went thru the chick pics and girls I rated say, 6 for example, were pulling 9's. This tells me most of the people rating these pics are desperate computer geeks and fat or old types.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phat

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dude...maybe u are a 8.. but u dont think so. yeh maybe all the fat girls is digging your pic.j/k
 

PeeGee

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I'm sure if I dressed well and etc, had a different haircut, and posed next to a car that girls recognised was impressive (like a souped up honda), I'd get a high ranking too.

-_-
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by PeeGee
a car that girls recognised was impressive (like a souped up honda)
Yes, chicks dig ricers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Evangenlion

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it doesn't matter to me how the rating scale is. everyone knows that rating scale thing varies depending on the person.

i like to hear how people rate someone else.

say a friend of mine tells me there is a girl that i think is a 7, and he thinks is a 9.

u know what that tells me? its tells me my friends attraction level to the person is higher then mine.

when u are told a rating from someone, don't take as actualy qauntifiable value, but as a Actual level of attraction that person has for the person he/she rated.

when some tells me "man she is a 10", it tells me his in love.
"mans she is 7" = he wants to **** her.
etc

when people put there faces on a website and asks to be rated.
that to me is the saddest thing, its insecurity at the highest level.
 
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