revolutionnow
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unless they are a member or share the same philosophy
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dont think i can be friends with anyone outside of this forum
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
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It’s very tough to find people in real life who think along the lines of red pill. Especially married friends. The wives of almost all of my married friends don’t like me much.
zekko
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Why is that? Do you tell their husbands they need to get their ho on a leash? Or do they simply see you as a bad influence? Do they think you'll lead their husbands astray into loose sex and nightlife?
logicallefty
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Because I tell them they need to quit letting the wife be so bossy towards them and remind them that they are independent men who don't need permission from the wife to take a pizz and which side of the toilet to aim it. The wives know that I am onto womens' BS in general and they don't want me around their husbands to potentially expose them and ruin their facade.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
EyeOnThePrize
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I also have friends whose GFs can tell I'm not like their man, that I don't put up with bad behavior, so I do my best to hang out with them without her around.
While masculinity is important, there are blue pill men that are better at certain things than myself. I may disagree with their cuck mentality towards women but I choose to focus our interactions on their qualities of strength. When I do this I develop a richer view of them, and as a result our interactions deepen and become enriched themselves.
The red/blue dynamic is one dimension of a person's characteristics among hundreds if not thousands, and in the arena where they are masters they're dominant, which is a red trait. I find and feed that dominance because I relate to it and because I enjoy seeing a man come into his own.
While masculinity is important, there are blue pill men that are better at certain things than myself. I may disagree with their cuck mentality towards women but I choose to focus our interactions on their qualities of strength. When I do this I develop a richer view of them, and as a result our interactions deepen and become enriched themselves.
The red/blue dynamic is one dimension of a person's characteristics among hundreds if not thousands, and in the arena where they are masters they're dominant, which is a red trait. I find and feed that dominance because I relate to it and because I enjoy seeing a man come into his own.
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wifehunter
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The rabbit hole is a lonely place.
But, it has it's advantages.
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Yes this is funny! be friend with males, but they can stab you in the back (not literally), but be friends with woman - impossible
id suggest to find friends who have same passions as you !!
revolutionnow
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Well said
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.