revolutionnow
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unless they are a member or share the same philosophy
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dont think i can be friends with anyone outside of this forum
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
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It’s very tough to find people in real life who think along the lines of red pill. Especially married friends. The wives of almost all of my married friends don’t like me much.
zekko
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Why is that? Do you tell their husbands they need to get their ho on a leash? Or do they simply see you as a bad influence? Do they think you'll lead their husbands astray into loose sex and nightlife?
logicallefty
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Because I tell them they need to quit letting the wife be so bossy towards them and remind them that they are independent men who don't need permission from the wife to take a pizz and which side of the toilet to aim it. The wives know that I am onto womens' BS in general and they don't want me around their husbands to potentially expose them and ruin their facade.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
EyeOnThePrize
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I also have friends whose GFs can tell I'm not like their man, that I don't put up with bad behavior, so I do my best to hang out with them without her around.
While masculinity is important, there are blue pill men that are better at certain things than myself. I may disagree with their cuck mentality towards women but I choose to focus our interactions on their qualities of strength. When I do this I develop a richer view of them, and as a result our interactions deepen and become enriched themselves.
The red/blue dynamic is one dimension of a person's characteristics among hundreds if not thousands, and in the arena where they are masters they're dominant, which is a red trait. I find and feed that dominance because I relate to it and because I enjoy seeing a man come into his own.
While masculinity is important, there are blue pill men that are better at certain things than myself. I may disagree with their cuck mentality towards women but I choose to focus our interactions on their qualities of strength. When I do this I develop a richer view of them, and as a result our interactions deepen and become enriched themselves.
The red/blue dynamic is one dimension of a person's characteristics among hundreds if not thousands, and in the arena where they are masters they're dominant, which is a red trait. I find and feed that dominance because I relate to it and because I enjoy seeing a man come into his own.
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wifehunter
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The rabbit hole is a lonely place.
But, it has it's advantages.
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Yes this is funny! be friend with males, but they can stab you in the back (not literally), but be friends with woman - impossible
id suggest to find friends who have same passions as you !!
revolutionnow
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Well said
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.