"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't think about it, just DO IT

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I have been mindfvcking myself lately by over thinking things. Thankfully the guys on here have caught me and I have had the opportunity to reevaluate how I'm going about my endeavors.

I would say that when you're approaching, do not think about it at all. The more you think about it, the less likely you are going to do it and that is the worst thing that can happen to you. I would even argue that not approaching her is worse than getting rejected. My friend tells me, that the feeling of regret is worse than rejection, and I agree with him.

I have been working a ton lately (60+ hours a week) and not really been working out at all. I've been tired when I get home, and it's basically effing up my body. I feel like I need to stop thinking "man I'm so tired" and just go to the gym even if it's at 10 pm and I've worked the whole day.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't be too hard on yourself in terms of the working out part. I work similar hours as you and it really is draining on your body. I mean, your body needs time to recuperate from all the stress, too.
 
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You have my respect on working 60+. I would not recommend working out on top of that though. You can't work any less bro ?
 
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SmooveMooves said:
You have my respect on working 60+. I would not recommend working out on top of that though. You can't work any less bro ?
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I'm trying to cut my hours starting in March. I have a full time job and a few part time gigs. I might drop the part time all together
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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skinnyguy said:
I'm trying to cut my hours starting in March. I have a full time job and a few part time gigs. I might drop the part time all together
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Alot of people get so caught up with work they forget about everything else. If I were you I'd cut the part time as well, but then again I don't make as much money as you and don't know the experience. I was always say, sure money is great, but what good is it if you can never enjoy it.

I read an article that had a survey of elders and asked them this question: If you could relive your life what would you go back and change ?

Majority of the elderly simply answered : I wish I worked less and enjoyed life more.

Don't forget to have some fun man, Life's short.
 
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