Don't think about it, just DO IT

[skinnyguy]

I have been mindfvcking myself lately by over thinking things. Thankfully the guys on here have caught me and I have had the opportunity to reevaluate how I'm going about my endeavors.

I would say that when you're approaching, do not think about it at all. The more you think about it, the less likely you are going to do it and that is the worst thing that can happen to you. I would even argue that not approaching her is worse than getting rejected. My friend tells me, that the feeling of regret is worse than rejection, and I agree with him.

I have been working a ton lately (60+ hours a week) and not really been working out at all. I've been tired when I get home, and it's basically effing up my body. I feel like I need to stop thinking "man I'm so tired" and just go to the gym even if it's at 10 pm and I've worked the whole day.

 

[teddy]

Don't be too hard on yourself in terms of the working out part. I work similar hours as you and it really is draining on your body. I mean, your body needs time to recuperate from all the stress, too.

 

[VikingKing]

Yup. We tend to overthink, a lot of us do it. You have to learn to just be.

 

[SmooveMooves]

You have my respect on working 60+. I would not recommend working out on top of that though. You can't work any less bro ?

 

[skinnyguy]

You have my respect on working 60+. I would not recommend working out on top of that though. You can't work any less bro ?

I'm trying to cut my hours starting in March. I have a full time job and a few part time gigs. I might drop the part time all together

 

[SmooveMooves]

I'm trying to cut my hours starting in March. I have a full time job and a few part time gigs. I might drop the part time all together

Alot of people get so caught up with work they forget about everything else. If I were you I'd cut the part time as well, but then again I don't make as much money as you and don't know the experience. I was always say, sure money is great, but what good is it if you can never enjoy it.

I read an article that had a survey of elders and asked them this question: If you could relive your life what would you go back and change ?

Majority of the elderly simply answered : I wish I worked less and enjoyed life more.

Don't forget to have some fun man, Life's short.