"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't stop at the phone

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Most of the tips i find are of the common approach and such tactics. I think we should really write more tips after the number close. Getting the number is the easy part, in my humble opinion, but the hard part is keeping the girl afterwords.

Any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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or...you mean having a relationship?

You'll have to hunt for those tips, a lot of people are concerned about being PUA's and sexing up everything.
 

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I don't just mean relationships, I mean what to do on dates, how to act (of course how you did when getting her number, but with your other goals). Many of us set ourselves on getting the number, and then get it, go on a date, and don't know what to do after we feel that she will give us her number [wait, she already gave it to me].
I'm not talking about developing a serious relationship, just like tips on dates and stuff like that. I feel that it would be important to see those on this
 

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The only tip I'll give, is to take her out on the date, and have fun. Enjoy yourself in the company of her, and make sure she does the same. That is the sense of a successful date. Too many people get hung up on kissing her or trying to hit on her.

Basically, tease her a little, talk to her thoughout it all, HAVE FUN and make sure she'll call you back for seconds. Sex is not everything.
 
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