"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't stop at the phone

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Most of the tips i find are of the common approach and such tactics. I think we should really write more tips after the number close. Getting the number is the easy part, in my humble opinion, but the hard part is keeping the girl afterwords.

Any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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or...you mean having a relationship?

You'll have to hunt for those tips, a lot of people are concerned about being PUA's and sexing up everything.
 

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I don't just mean relationships, I mean what to do on dates, how to act (of course how you did when getting her number, but with your other goals). Many of us set ourselves on getting the number, and then get it, go on a date, and don't know what to do after we feel that she will give us her number [wait, she already gave it to me].
I'm not talking about developing a serious relationship, just like tips on dates and stuff like that. I feel that it would be important to see those on this
 

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The only tip I'll give, is to take her out on the date, and have fun. Enjoy yourself in the company of her, and make sure she does the same. That is the sense of a successful date. Too many people get hung up on kissing her or trying to hit on her.

Basically, tease her a little, talk to her thoughout it all, HAVE FUN and make sure she'll call you back for seconds. Sex is not everything.
 
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