"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't play the victim

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I know alot of guys including myself start to feel sorry for themselves for their lack of success with women. It is tempting to wallow in self-pity, but it does not do you any good. I have some emotional problems that have fukked with my self-esteem for years and have definitely interfered with my sucess with women.

Others are born not so handsome, or with a handicaped, juvenile diabetes or a learning disability. Getting depressed over it and screaming....Why god? or God you owe me? does not help the situation one bit. Moral of the story, stay positive, do not fall into the pity trap. Most of all, remember EVERYONE has issues, even Brad Pitt I am sure.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What makes the difference between men and boys are the ways that they handle their issues.
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What makes the difference between men and boys are the ways that they handle their issues.
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Exactly, however I'll go a little deeper.

People that blame their problems on their environment are externalizers. Their failures in school, on the job, and with women are attributed to some kind of "bad luck" that they don't "deserve." From my description, you can conclude that this type of person does the worst in their endeavors because of their lack of responsibility and reliance on "fate."

Then there are internalizers. These people strive for achievement and recognition. When a hurdle is in their path and they trip over it, they know that if they train harder they can make it over that hurdle. They know it is up to them to improve themselves to prepare for what life throws their way. They write their own destiny. Internals make great entrepreneurs and are successful in life.
 
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Sometimes you feel like you need to fall into a self-pity mode, crying over all your failures, but just keep busy and have fun. Life is too short to waste time.
 
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Great post, Mahon! I like this new attitude of yours! ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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read the first quote from my sig
 
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