from 4 years after being on this forum.. well ive stopped posting and reading stuff here for over a year now at least not as much as back then, i just noticed that playing games with women in the first place will jus cause confusion.
Most of the guys in the real world dont do these "PUA" wannab acting crap.
I used to try it, and it wasn't just me... EVEN if i had completely programmed myself to be IT.
I'd play games with them and theyd play games with me and sometimes it seems like when they find out that you werent being yourself the whole time, they would loose interest in you and you'll just feel it. Sometimes, theyll just give up on your cause you play too much of these games.
Sure, teasing, some sense of humor are qualities great to have but playing games is sounding alot less manly to me at least these days.
Example of playing games would be going hot and cold on a chick.
The naturals in the real world go hot and cold on a chick because they really DO have other chicks as options, they really DO get busy with other activities in their lives which end up sounding like they are playing games when theyre really not. Their reasons are legit.
Sure, you need to have GAME still.. not calling/texting too much and not answering to every call.
But the real game out of you comes out when you have legit reasons... when you really ARE busy.. when you really HAVE options, when you really dont GIVE A DAMN about the outcome
Sure, for those of you starting at level zero who do not have options, who arent busy can fake it... but since nothing LEGIT has happend to you yet, you will eventually come out of the closet and show the chick that "HEY, I DO GIVE A DAMN and though i try not to look/act like I give a damn"
Most of the guys in the real world dont do these "PUA" wannab acting crap.
I used to try it, and it wasn't just me... EVEN if i had completely programmed myself to be IT.
I'd play games with them and theyd play games with me and sometimes it seems like when they find out that you werent being yourself the whole time, they would loose interest in you and you'll just feel it. Sometimes, theyll just give up on your cause you play too much of these games.
Sure, teasing, some sense of humor are qualities great to have but playing games is sounding alot less manly to me at least these days.
Example of playing games would be going hot and cold on a chick.
The naturals in the real world go hot and cold on a chick because they really DO have other chicks as options, they really DO get busy with other activities in their lives which end up sounding like they are playing games when theyre really not. Their reasons are legit.
Sure, you need to have GAME still.. not calling/texting too much and not answering to every call.
But the real game out of you comes out when you have legit reasons... when you really ARE busy.. when you really HAVE options, when you really dont GIVE A DAMN about the outcome
Sure, for those of you starting at level zero who do not have options, who arent busy can fake it... but since nothing LEGIT has happend to you yet, you will eventually come out of the closet and show the chick that "HEY, I DO GIVE A DAMN and though i try not to look/act like I give a damn"