"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't overdo no contact

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No contact is usually GOOD, but it becomes bad when the man goes OUT OF HIS WAY to avoid her, an example would be deliberately avoiding mutual friends that HE WANTS TO SEE because she might be there. So by all means, go no contact, but don't let it stop you from doing other things you want to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just broke up LTR. I little surprising for her... (full details on my other post: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177137 )..

Anyway: for now I really feel like going NO CONTACT.. theres nothing to say or do so why contact?
Of course I do feel bad because I was very surprisive to break up, also she was really hurt.. so.. the only reason to contact is to apollogize.. but of course, id do that to find a last piece of aproval and feel less in pain (AFC).

Also I really wouldnt like to meet her suddenly face to face in the street.. but Im definetly not gonna lock myself home or be hidding in the street.

BTW she called me today like 4 times.. im not answerig.. just dont feel like and dont want to. Ill just let time wash up stuff.. see what happens. And continue with the no contact.
 
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I agree with Captain!!! +1

It seems like SUCH a simple idea, but from looking at some of the posts around here, people are OBSESSING with girls whom they can't go no-contact on (because she's in the same social circle, she works at the same place, etc).

LIVE YOUR DAMN LIFE!!!!

ALSO, people are ALWAYS confusing no contact with next-ing a woman.

If you next a woman, it is because 1) You failed and now it's too late to attract her, or 2) YOU are no longer interested in HER.

You can still have a cordial relationship with her or even a friendship, IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT. And you SHOULD, because she can open your social life up quite a bit.

No contact is just that; no contact. It can go hand in hand with next-ing, but is VERY different.
 
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