No contact is usually GOOD, but it becomes bad when the man goes OUT OF HIS WAY to avoid her, an example would be deliberately avoiding mutual friends that HE WANTS TO SEE because she might be there. So by all means, go no contact, but don't let it stop you from doing other things you want to do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don't overdo no contact
- Thread starter Captain
- Start date