"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't Overdo It

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Don't Overdo It

Just a quick tip to warn you guys not to overdo it when it comes to tips/tactics and so on. I've tried and tested a lot of the tactics discussed on these and other forums and overdoing any one of them can mean failure...


- Don't be over confident as... OVER CONFIDENCE = ARROGANT PRICK/JERK

- Don't be over ****y as... OVER ****INESS = ARROGANT POSER/BIG HEAD

- Don't be overly funny as... OVERLY FUNNY = CLOWN (and we all know clowns ain't sexy!)

- Don't be overly serious as... OVERLY SERIOUS = BORING

- Don't be overly mysterious as... OVERLY MYSTERIOUS = CLOSED OFF/UNOBTAINABLE

- Don't be too much of a challenge as... TOO MUCH OF A CHALLENGE = UNOBTAINABLE

- Don't over 'neg' as... OVER NEGG-ING = PRICK

- Don't over use kino as... OVER USING KINO = SLEAZY

- Don't overdo eye contact as... OVER USING EC = WEIRD

- Don't act overly cool as... OVERLY COOL = TRY HARD


The key to all the above is... be subtle!

Yes, use the tactics and tips but find a happy medium and take it from there. A well balanced guy is a cool guy that will do the best he can when it comes to the ladies.

Finally, one thing that you SHOULDN'T overdo is approaching...

OVER APPROACH and your results and successes will sky rocket!

Happy Sarging!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OVER APPROACH=ATTENTION/NYMPH WH0RES

Be subtle, know when to reject the wrong kind of girl. Some of the hotter girls I know, label other wh0res as fodder, they see one approach a guy, and take him home immediately. He is then pegged as easy, AFC, and no challenge. True story.
 
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Yall english blokes be crackin me up wit da sarge stuff...

its all good though

Good tip.
A true don juan understands the principle of balance.
Balance is one of the must difficult things to master in almost any situation, how long did it take to to learn to ride a bicycle?

I'd add to your list:

don't be too cool, guys who are too cool can be perceived as not having personality.

There is a time to be cool and a time not too.

When she is going off on you in front of a room of people for no reason you remain cool.

When you are at a party holding up the wall trying to look cool instead of approaching people and starting conversations; well that's not the right time.
 
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thats very good. thanks.
 
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Hey shezz,

yeah think im getting used to this natural game thingy. It seems to be quite effective and not as fake as indirect.

TDOT: You calling me english?! What an insult to an irish guy! lol. j/k to all english lads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another great tip! I've gone through all those stages too before finding the importance of balance.

Guys just starting out should pay attention!
 
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Bravo Silverwex! Givin' this a 4 star and adding a rep. point for you ;)
 
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Glad to be of assistance guys.

I think Ive come full circle and realised that balance is key to all this seduction stuff.
 
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Great tip bro,to bad u didnt post it a couple of months before,i ruined a great chance with a great girl:(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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