"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't Overdo It

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Don't Overdo It

Just a quick tip to warn you guys not to overdo it when it comes to tips/tactics and so on. I've tried and tested a lot of the tactics discussed on these and other forums and overdoing any one of them can mean failure...


- Don't be over confident as... OVER CONFIDENCE = ARROGANT PRICK/JERK

- Don't be over ****y as... OVER ****INESS = ARROGANT POSER/BIG HEAD

- Don't be overly funny as... OVERLY FUNNY = CLOWN (and we all know clowns ain't sexy!)

- Don't be overly serious as... OVERLY SERIOUS = BORING

- Don't be overly mysterious as... OVERLY MYSTERIOUS = CLOSED OFF/UNOBTAINABLE

- Don't be too much of a challenge as... TOO MUCH OF A CHALLENGE = UNOBTAINABLE

- Don't over 'neg' as... OVER NEGG-ING = PRICK

- Don't over use kino as... OVER USING KINO = SLEAZY

- Don't overdo eye contact as... OVER USING EC = WEIRD

- Don't act overly cool as... OVERLY COOL = TRY HARD


The key to all the above is... be subtle!

Yes, use the tactics and tips but find a happy medium and take it from there. A well balanced guy is a cool guy that will do the best he can when it comes to the ladies.

Finally, one thing that you SHOULDN'T overdo is approaching...

OVER APPROACH and your results and successes will sky rocket!

Happy Sarging!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OVER APPROACH=ATTENTION/NYMPH WH0RES

Be subtle, know when to reject the wrong kind of girl. Some of the hotter girls I know, label other wh0res as fodder, they see one approach a guy, and take him home immediately. He is then pegged as easy, AFC, and no challenge. True story.
 

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Yall english blokes be crackin me up wit da sarge stuff...

its all good though

Good tip.
A true don juan understands the principle of balance.
Balance is one of the must difficult things to master in almost any situation, how long did it take to to learn to ride a bicycle?

I'd add to your list:

don't be too cool, guys who are too cool can be perceived as not having personality.

There is a time to be cool and a time not too.

When she is going off on you in front of a room of people for no reason you remain cool.

When you are at a party holding up the wall trying to look cool instead of approaching people and starting conversations; well that's not the right time.
 

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thats very good. thanks.
 

silverwex

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Hey shezz,

yeah think im getting used to this natural game thingy. It seems to be quite effective and not as fake as indirect.

TDOT: You calling me english?! What an insult to an irish guy! lol. j/k to all english lads.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another great tip! I've gone through all those stages too before finding the importance of balance.

Guys just starting out should pay attention!
 

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Bravo Silverwex! Givin' this a 4 star and adding a rep. point for you ;)
 

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Glad to be of assistance guys.

I think Ive come full circle and realised that balance is key to all this seduction stuff.
 

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Great tip bro,to bad u didnt post it a couple of months before,i ruined a great chance with a great girl:(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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