The Sperminator
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Heres a blog from a girl on myspace. Intersting, it seems like girls are starting to figure out the pick up artists now. These techniques do work I know for a fact but when you overdo it or just use tricks the whole time your game won't work.
"I've used to always be attracted to a guy with game. Guys with what I thought was natural charisma who were absolutely confident and were extremely witty. I only recently learned about a book called "The Game" by one of my favorite
authors Neil Strauss. This book basically talks about the underground society of "pick up artists...from whats called the "seduction community".
The game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
Also there is a show on VH1 called "The Pickup Artist" which stars one of the famous pick up artists from the community.
Mystery from the VH1 show: The Pick Up Artist
Basically guys who spent most of their free time trying to figure out how to learn the skills to pick up on and sleep with women. It kind of changed my idea that charisma was something that you are simply born with.
Basically these guys were learning that it was possible to create natural charisma to pick up girls. These were mostly nerdy guys who couldnt get a date and definitely couldnt get laid BUT after learning these techniques they were easily picking up on girls, and not just any girls, they were claiming to have picked up on really hot girls, 8s, 9s, and 10s.
There are so many concepts, but one of the concepts ws "peacocking". "Peacocking" basically involves wearing outlandish clothes so you are the most unusual personal in the room, for example, guys with mohawks, or wearing black nail polish, or wearing a purple jacket shiny jacket. Something sometimes totally weird and out of the ordinary and sometimes ridiculous.
Another technique was to "neg" a girl which basically means you give a girl a backhanded compliment like "you look really good, have you lost some weight"? or Nice nails. Are they real?" The motivation behind the insult is to lower the girl's self-esteem so she feels subconsciously that she has to seek validation from the person who subtly insulted her.
It was so funny because I had never met a guy like this before and right after I finished reading the book I went out to dinner with a guy who was TOTALLY RUNNING GAME ON ME! I met him through a friend and he was totally not the kind of guy that I would usually go out with but he was very witty and confident and pretty much told me to give me his number (not in a rude way but in a confident way). He was extremely persistent (which I like--guys should pursue a girl, not the other way around!)
He came to pick me up and he was wearing his hair in an unusual style. He had his hair normal when I met him, but this time it was slicked back immense amounts of gel, with some height on the top and a ponytail. It was so strange I cant even describe it!!! He was also wearing a silver brocade jacket--mind you this is summertime--enough said.... He was obviously peacocking.
I was really uncomfortable walking into the restaurant. I dont really like to blatantly cry for attention but this guy obviously wanted to be seen and although I tried to go choose a booth in a corner, he chose a booth which was in view of
everyone in the restaurant. However He was easy to talk to during dinner and very witty and things were good for about 15 minutes. But somewhere through dinner things started to wear thin. He really was trying very hard to be slick and after all I got tired of the constantly wittiness and just wanted a normal converation. Then somewhere in the middle of the conversation he used the "negging" technique on me! He said "wow your hair is nice, is it real?" which is an exact quote from the book "The Game". Anyways at this point it was obvious that he was a pick up artist or at least a wannabe pick up artist. Anyhow, I never returned his calls after the date, Although he was charming when I first spoke to him, after an extended period of talking he just came off as really creepy...BUT I did go out on a date with him so the pick up artist techniques do work to a certain extent!~"
"I've used to always be attracted to a guy with game. Guys with what I thought was natural charisma who were absolutely confident and were extremely witty. I only recently learned about a book called "The Game" by one of my favorite
authors Neil Strauss. This book basically talks about the underground society of "pick up artists...from whats called the "seduction community".
The game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
Also there is a show on VH1 called "The Pickup Artist" which stars one of the famous pick up artists from the community.
Mystery from the VH1 show: The Pick Up Artist
Basically guys who spent most of their free time trying to figure out how to learn the skills to pick up on and sleep with women. It kind of changed my idea that charisma was something that you are simply born with.
Basically these guys were learning that it was possible to create natural charisma to pick up girls. These were mostly nerdy guys who couldnt get a date and definitely couldnt get laid BUT after learning these techniques they were easily picking up on girls, and not just any girls, they were claiming to have picked up on really hot girls, 8s, 9s, and 10s.
There are so many concepts, but one of the concepts ws "peacocking". "Peacocking" basically involves wearing outlandish clothes so you are the most unusual personal in the room, for example, guys with mohawks, or wearing black nail polish, or wearing a purple jacket shiny jacket. Something sometimes totally weird and out of the ordinary and sometimes ridiculous.
Another technique was to "neg" a girl which basically means you give a girl a backhanded compliment like "you look really good, have you lost some weight"? or Nice nails. Are they real?" The motivation behind the insult is to lower the girl's self-esteem so she feels subconsciously that she has to seek validation from the person who subtly insulted her.
It was so funny because I had never met a guy like this before and right after I finished reading the book I went out to dinner with a guy who was TOTALLY RUNNING GAME ON ME! I met him through a friend and he was totally not the kind of guy that I would usually go out with but he was very witty and confident and pretty much told me to give me his number (not in a rude way but in a confident way). He was extremely persistent (which I like--guys should pursue a girl, not the other way around!)
He came to pick me up and he was wearing his hair in an unusual style. He had his hair normal when I met him, but this time it was slicked back immense amounts of gel, with some height on the top and a ponytail. It was so strange I cant even describe it!!! He was also wearing a silver brocade jacket--mind you this is summertime--enough said.... He was obviously peacocking.
I was really uncomfortable walking into the restaurant. I dont really like to blatantly cry for attention but this guy obviously wanted to be seen and although I tried to go choose a booth in a corner, he chose a booth which was in view of
everyone in the restaurant. However He was easy to talk to during dinner and very witty and things were good for about 15 minutes. But somewhere through dinner things started to wear thin. He really was trying very hard to be slick and after all I got tired of the constantly wittiness and just wanted a normal converation. Then somewhere in the middle of the conversation he used the "negging" technique on me! He said "wow your hair is nice, is it real?" which is an exact quote from the book "The Game". Anyways at this point it was obvious that he was a pick up artist or at least a wannabe pick up artist. Anyhow, I never returned his calls after the date, Although he was charming when I first spoke to him, after an extended period of talking he just came off as really creepy...BUT I did go out on a date with him so the pick up artist techniques do work to a certain extent!~"
