"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't Need a Girlfriend? WTF?

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So, I was chatting with a female friend of mine tonight and basically we started talking about relationships.

She said the most interesting thing ever. Here is our convo paraphrased:

Me: blah blah **something about a girlfriend** blah blah
Her: hmm, I wonder why you'd need a girlfriend
Me: what? why
Her: because you've never really mentioned it.
Me: hmm...yea I don't really broadcast it. So because I haven't said anything I don't need a gf?
Her: well...it's just that it never seemed liek you needed one. You have a lot going on in your life.
Me: hmm...

Yea so this got me thinking. True I am a busy person, but has this hurt my chances? Because I have a life? Let me hear your thoughts on this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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basically your friend was just saying you never mentioned it before , you usually seem busy and like you dont care if you have one or not, you werent hunting for one.

really doesnt add up to a whole lot.

no worries !
 

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Ya, she's right, you DON'T need a girl friend. And don't act llike it. It's a good thing. She didn't say you COULDN't get one, she said you don't NEED one. She just recognizes you got other **** going on, which is a good thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think it's just an honest conversation.
 

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You don't need a girlfriend and that is what she is saying. Why query this?
 

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its her opinion. who knows if you need a gf or not. if you need a gf youre going to go find one regardless of what she says if you dont, then stay single. i wouldnt worry that much about what girls say.
 

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You got a life? Please help me out with that one. What are your hobbies other than playing with the one-eyed snake? :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Bling
You got a life? Please help me out with that one. What are your hobbies other than playing with the one-eyed snake? :p
Well I do really well in school. I'm liked ranked #3 of 450 kids. I'm president of 2 clubs. I play varsity tennis. I play piano and guitar. That's about it.
 
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