"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't Need a Girlfriend? WTF?

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So, I was chatting with a female friend of mine tonight and basically we started talking about relationships.

She said the most interesting thing ever. Here is our convo paraphrased:

Me: blah blah **something about a girlfriend** blah blah
Her: hmm, I wonder why you'd need a girlfriend
Me: what? why
Her: because you've never really mentioned it.
Me: hmm...yea I don't really broadcast it. So because I haven't said anything I don't need a gf?
Her: well...it's just that it never seemed liek you needed one. You have a lot going on in your life.
Me: hmm...

Yea so this got me thinking. True I am a busy person, but has this hurt my chances? Because I have a life? Let me hear your thoughts on this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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basically your friend was just saying you never mentioned it before , you usually seem busy and like you dont care if you have one or not, you werent hunting for one.

really doesnt add up to a whole lot.

no worries !
 
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Ya, she's right, you DON'T need a girl friend. And don't act llike it. It's a good thing. She didn't say you COULDN't get one, she said you don't NEED one. She just recognizes you got other **** going on, which is a good thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think it's just an honest conversation.
 
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You don't need a girlfriend and that is what she is saying. Why query this?
 
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its her opinion. who knows if you need a gf or not. if you need a gf youre going to go find one regardless of what she says if you dont, then stay single. i wouldnt worry that much about what girls say.
 
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You got a life? Please help me out with that one. What are your hobbies other than playing with the one-eyed snake? :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Bling
You got a life? Please help me out with that one. What are your hobbies other than playing with the one-eyed snake? :p
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Well I do really well in school. I'm liked ranked #3 of 450 kids. I'm president of 2 clubs. I play varsity tennis. I play piano and guitar. That's about it.
 
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