"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't masterbate!!!!

Stéphane

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Anyways everyone knows that im a virgin here, and ive been trying too hard to pickup. Anyhow tonight one of my old roomates camed back in town, and she wanted to hang out with me. We had lots of fun, and then we started to have intense eye contact, we always had intense chemistry but we never acted on it.

Anyhow she`s 30 im 20, fast forward. I get her naked, im in her bed, but I cant get hard. I was able to finger but thats all I was able to do. Now I blame porn for this problem, and all the alchohol I drank. So we end up doing nothing, but she was completely understandable, and she said that she wants me to come in montreal next week, and f*ck her, but this situation really blows. As this ever happened to anyone before, and do you have any tips?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Hey Stephane, don't worry about it man everyone has performance anxiety not and then and this was going to be your first time. I suggest lay off the booze and drugs next week when you go see her. Also, definately lay off the porn for the whole week. This will definately boost the testosterone levels in your bloodstream, although a minor amount, but enough to make a difference. By the time you see her you should be thinking of nothing but sleeping with her. Just try and pretend like your actually listening to her conversations. I suggest you eat 2 bananas two hours before you actually think you will bang her and maybe a red bull as well.

Good luck man and be glad she was understanding unlike other girls.
 

saber

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masterbate without porn from now on

if you quit masterbating you are gonna pop in 5 seconds of ****ing her
 

young_gun

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Stop masturbating all week. You might pop fast once you get in it, but there's always time for round 2.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iguana

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Do not watch porn for the rest of your life.

Reduce masturbation.

Start meditating.

Do not think in advance your dates, reducing anxiety.

When you are with her, admire her body, think of how hot she is, touch her, dream of ****ing her, etc. You WILL get an erection as long as you don't think of, well, getting an erection.
 
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