"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't masterbate!!!!

Stéphane

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Anyways everyone knows that im a virgin here, and ive been trying too hard to pickup. Anyhow tonight one of my old roomates camed back in town, and she wanted to hang out with me. We had lots of fun, and then we started to have intense eye contact, we always had intense chemistry but we never acted on it.

Anyhow she`s 30 im 20, fast forward. I get her naked, im in her bed, but I cant get hard. I was able to finger but thats all I was able to do. Now I blame porn for this problem, and all the alchohol I drank. So we end up doing nothing, but she was completely understandable, and she said that she wants me to come in montreal next week, and f*ck her, but this situation really blows. As this ever happened to anyone before, and do you have any tips?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Hey Stephane, don't worry about it man everyone has performance anxiety not and then and this was going to be your first time. I suggest lay off the booze and drugs next week when you go see her. Also, definately lay off the porn for the whole week. This will definately boost the testosterone levels in your bloodstream, although a minor amount, but enough to make a difference. By the time you see her you should be thinking of nothing but sleeping with her. Just try and pretend like your actually listening to her conversations. I suggest you eat 2 bananas two hours before you actually think you will bang her and maybe a red bull as well.

Good luck man and be glad she was understanding unlike other girls.
 

saber

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masterbate without porn from now on

if you quit masterbating you are gonna pop in 5 seconds of ****ing her
 

young_gun

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Stop masturbating all week. You might pop fast once you get in it, but there's always time for round 2.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do not watch porn for the rest of your life.

Reduce masturbation.

Start meditating.

Do not think in advance your dates, reducing anxiety.

When you are with her, admire her body, think of how hot she is, touch her, dream of ****ing her, etc. You WILL get an erection as long as you don't think of, well, getting an erection.
 
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