"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont make this mistake

TRSX

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So, i led this plate on because I had a bit of oneitis going on, was feeling bad - went through this long relationship break up.

Of course when the heat got turned on by her , it was clear to her that she wanted a relationship and I wasn't ready for one, although my actions made it seem that way.

So today I called her, and told her I didn't want a relationship, I just wanted to chill and do whatever.

It sucked. I feel like I betrayed someone even though I hardly knew her.

I was not upfront and honest from the beginning. This is like the ****tiest mistake you can make. Regardless if its just a plate or not.

Had to hit the eject button.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't see what you're beating yourself up about?

You were honest.

And to be quite frank, she probably doesn't even care. She will just move on to option #2.
 

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Yeah, but my actions and what I said were completely different.

It was a **** move.

Honesty upfront is the way to go - should of payed more attention to the DJ bible.
 
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