Ever had a situation where you got the girl’s phone number, but you didn’t get a date after that? When you called her up she didn’t sound interested in talking to you so you didn’t bother asking her out. What’s going on here, it dosen’t make sense since you got her number right?
It all lies in the concept of interest level. Her never in you never “stays still”, it’s either increasing or decreasing. While she was interested when you first met her, the interest level could have gone down by the time you call her. The secret to beating this isn’t to call her earlier when you’re fresh on her mind, that just makes you look desperate.
A lot of things could’ve happened. She could’ve met another guy during that time or she was just being polite by giving you her number. **** happens, but there are things you can do to increase your success.
Suggest a Date When You First Meet Her
When you get her phone number, she dosen’t know what to expect. Her interest level will lower because she’s not thinking about you. What you can do is suggest an activity together when you first meet her.
Me: I cooked the most delicious Ziti last night, my mom would be so proud of me
Her: Ohh I love Ziti! Can you cook some for me?
Me: Maybe, it depends on what you’ll do for me! Give me your number, we can get together this weekend
After you get her number, she’ll be thinking about the event and anticipating when you’re going to call because she has a clear image in her head of the event.
Go on an Instant Date
Who says you have to get her number, wait a few days, call for date, wait a few days again, THEN go on a date?
Skip all that and go on a date when you first ask her out if the timing’s right. For instance if you meet her at a coffee shop, just casually ask her what her plans are for the day and suggest something better.
Me: What are you up to the rest of the day?
Her: I don’t know, I haven’t planned anything special
Me: I just got a new place and gotta do some furniture shopping. Wanna come to IKEA and give me a female perspective. You know straight guys aren’t good with this kinda stuff.
Another idea is if you meet her at a club or party. Me and my boys always go out and eat afterwards at like 3 in the morning. The night’s still young, why not invite her along? By the time you’re done it’ll be around 5am, you can suggest that it’s easier if she comes back to your place to spend the night
The benefits of an “instant date”
* More time to build interest/attraction
* Going to different places when you first meet will make her feel like she’s known you longer
* There are no “expectations” as opposed to a traditional date. Since it’ll be more like hanging out, she’ll lower her guard and be more susceptible to your charm!
A phone number is a terrible thing to waste, please ensure you get dates out of it!
It all lies in the concept of interest level. Her never in you never “stays still”, it’s either increasing or decreasing. While she was interested when you first met her, the interest level could have gone down by the time you call her. The secret to beating this isn’t to call her earlier when you’re fresh on her mind, that just makes you look desperate.
A lot of things could’ve happened. She could’ve met another guy during that time or she was just being polite by giving you her number. **** happens, but there are things you can do to increase your success.
Suggest a Date When You First Meet Her
When you get her phone number, she dosen’t know what to expect. Her interest level will lower because she’s not thinking about you. What you can do is suggest an activity together when you first meet her.
Me: I cooked the most delicious Ziti last night, my mom would be so proud of me
Her: Ohh I love Ziti! Can you cook some for me?
Me: Maybe, it depends on what you’ll do for me! Give me your number, we can get together this weekend
After you get her number, she’ll be thinking about the event and anticipating when you’re going to call because she has a clear image in her head of the event.
Go on an Instant Date
Who says you have to get her number, wait a few days, call for date, wait a few days again, THEN go on a date?
Skip all that and go on a date when you first ask her out if the timing’s right. For instance if you meet her at a coffee shop, just casually ask her what her plans are for the day and suggest something better.
Me: What are you up to the rest of the day?
Her: I don’t know, I haven’t planned anything special
Me: I just got a new place and gotta do some furniture shopping. Wanna come to IKEA and give me a female perspective. You know straight guys aren’t good with this kinda stuff.
Another idea is if you meet her at a club or party. Me and my boys always go out and eat afterwards at like 3 in the morning. The night’s still young, why not invite her along? By the time you’re done it’ll be around 5am, you can suggest that it’s easier if she comes back to your place to spend the night
The benefits of an “instant date”
* More time to build interest/attraction
* Going to different places when you first meet will make her feel like she’s known you longer
* There are no “expectations” as opposed to a traditional date. Since it’ll be more like hanging out, she’ll lower her guard and be more susceptible to your charm!
A phone number is a terrible thing to waste, please ensure you get dates out of it!