Do NOT let your friends convince you that you aren't worthy of having some chick; that you can't get her.
Now there is a difference between being a scumbag and pursuing a girl when she has clearly given you signs she doesn't want you. But let me use an example to get my point through clearer...
There was this extremely hot girl that I got to know, and after that we just clicked. She was calling me randomly on some nights after getting drunk. When we saw each other there was mad sexual tension, it was palpable. Anyways, getting to the point: she was giving me signs that she was interested. Now, when I told my friends about it, they would say things like "oh she's just really flirty," or "dude you're not gonna fvck that girl." Well, I let it get to me and it ruined the whole thing. I didn't strike when the iron was hot.
Just let that be a lesson to everybody. Just like one of the DJ newsletters said, just go ahead and assume that she (every girl) likes you, and don't listen to your friends because they never have the full story. Why do they do this? Partly because they could be jealous, or just plain ignorant. Either that or they know something that you don't, which in that case perhaps you should find out what that information is.
Find out for yourself, do not let them talk you out of it if you feel in your gut that she's into you. If she's giving you signs of interest, go for it. What's the worst that can happen? You get rejected? At least you know. I'm beating myself up because I listened to my friends; I would have RATHER got shot down. Now like I said before, if they have a valuable piece of information like "Yeah Katie said you were just a friend and you are like her little brother," or "yeah I would never hook up with him," etc. Now that's a different story. Anyways this is getting longwinded and I think you get the point.
And don't forget another important thing that I read from The Player Guide... "You have to be willing to lose a girl to get her." Ingenious I think.
Now there is a difference between being a scumbag and pursuing a girl when she has clearly given you signs she doesn't want you. But let me use an example to get my point through clearer...
There was this extremely hot girl that I got to know, and after that we just clicked. She was calling me randomly on some nights after getting drunk. When we saw each other there was mad sexual tension, it was palpable. Anyways, getting to the point: she was giving me signs that she was interested. Now, when I told my friends about it, they would say things like "oh she's just really flirty," or "dude you're not gonna fvck that girl." Well, I let it get to me and it ruined the whole thing. I didn't strike when the iron was hot.
Just let that be a lesson to everybody. Just like one of the DJ newsletters said, just go ahead and assume that she (every girl) likes you, and don't listen to your friends because they never have the full story. Why do they do this? Partly because they could be jealous, or just plain ignorant. Either that or they know something that you don't, which in that case perhaps you should find out what that information is.
Find out for yourself, do not let them talk you out of it if you feel in your gut that she's into you. If she's giving you signs of interest, go for it. What's the worst that can happen? You get rejected? At least you know. I'm beating myself up because I listened to my friends; I would have RATHER got shot down. Now like I said before, if they have a valuable piece of information like "Yeah Katie said you were just a friend and you are like her little brother," or "yeah I would never hook up with him," etc. Now that's a different story. Anyways this is getting longwinded and I think you get the point.
And don't forget another important thing that I read from The Player Guide... "You have to be willing to lose a girl to get her." Ingenious I think.