"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't let women "blackmail" you on OLD

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So basically, we all know women love attention. Especially women of today. In Ben Affleck's case, he was screenshot by an Insta chick, because nothing boosts your ego more than being matched by Ben Affleck, right?

That's why I never understand guys who send **** pics. Basically it's golden material for blackmailing and other things that could ruin their reputation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So basically, we all know women love attention. Especially women of today. In Ben Affleck's case, he was screenshot by an Insta chick, because nothing boosts your ego more than being matched by Ben Affleck, right?

That's why I never understand guys who send **** pics. Basically it's golden material for blackmailing and other things that could ruin their reputation.
Blackmail is illegal in all cases. What exactly would they try to extort from you?
 

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Blackmail is illegal in all cases. What exactly would they try to extort from you?
That's the question to ask them, not me. Guys have more to lose on OLD than women these days. Read my earlier post about a guy who was exposed by a chick just because she didn't like him.
 

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If you calibrate well you don't have to worry about blackmail. Just don't send **** pics out of the blue.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're famous then you need to be really careful what you do online. For an average guy, the chances of getting blackmailed are pretty low but you should never underestimate a woman's desire for attention. Anything you say or do on a dating app has the potential to be shown off and broadcast online.
 

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If you're famous then you need to be really careful what you do online. For an average guy, the chances of getting blackmailed are pretty low but you should never underestimate a woman's desire for attention. Anything you say or do on a dating app has the potential to be shown off and broadcast online.
Revenge porn is illegal.
Blackmail is illegal.

The only times I've known normal guys to get blackmailed is by strippers who threatened to tell their wives they were at a strip club unless they sent them money.
 

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Revenge porn is illegal.
Blackmail is illegal.

The only times I've known normal guys to get blackmailed is by strippers who threatened to tell their wives they were at a strip club unless they sent them money.
Car theft is illegal. That doesn't mean that you should leave your BMW parked outside the 7-11 with the keys in the ignition and the windows down.

Anyway, blackmail isn't the only concern. Rather than blackmail you, women are more likely to just go ahead and publish whatever compromising photos or messages they receive in order to draw attention to themselves. A lot of famous guys have ended up getting into trouble this way.

If you're not famous and you send out compromising pics and messages, women could still do it but it's unlikely to get any public attention unless they find out your personal info and send it to your boss, etc.
 

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Sending d!ck pics is just plain dumb, regardless of whether you are famous or not.
 

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So basically, we all know women love attention. Especially women of today. In Ben Affleck's case, he was screenshot by an Insta chick, because nothing boosts your ego more than being matched by Ben Affleck, right?

That's why I never understand guys who send **** pics. Basically it's golden material for blackmailing and other things that could ruin their reputation.
Blackmailing being illegal is irrelevant to this post. So don't focus too much on it.

If I get this right, OLD is trash. No big surprise there but...

It's simple, you put yourself in that situation (online for the world to see) and you are exposing yourself. And if you are famous, like Ben Affleck, then that is really on him. Cannot expect these sort of things to not happen.

OLD puts women in a level of control, power, and authority at so many levels. Not sure why most men do not get it. It's called being p***y whipped.

Having said that, everyone has their own opinion and they are not wrong about it. They have that freedom and they are entitled to it.



Modern Man Advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sending d!ck pics is just plain dumb, regardless of whether you are famous or not.
If you do get famous one day, that dik pik is gonna come back to haunt you. Although I suppose the thing about dik piks is that they're so obscene that no newspaper would print them. If you were stupid enough to show your face and dik at the same time, though, then they could print it with that bit blurred out.
 

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Thank you to every gentleman that contributed to this thread.

I remember a quote from the movie Godfather, about only women and children can afford to be CARELESS, but not men. Men are not meant to be careless - which I agree.

Every single dirty text and d!ck pic you sent to a chick who is not your regular plate/date/LTR would eventually come back to haunt you and make you suffer, one way or another.

Instead of sending your d!ck to her, make her send her pvssy pic to you. That's the ONLY way to go if you're into this kind of stuff.
 
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