"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't let it get to your head

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Getting girls/women to like you isn't a job. It isn't something you do because you like to feel pressured. We all know this but sometimes we forget that women aren't the most important things in our lives so we put too much value in them. If you ever get rejected or snubbed by a girl you think is hot, just brush it off and don't let it get to your head. Know that it's all just a game and eventually you WILL get what you want: everyone does. No one is destined to live a lonely life unless they stop believing in themselves, which causes them to get their priorities out of order, which turns you into a REAL loser. Don't be a loser, get your sh1t together, just live life WITH women and not FOR women. They're just like your guy friends in the sense that they are only there to entertain you. Yeah, you gotta treat them differently than you would a guy, but when you get that down, it's all gravy. The tips on this site are a great start to those who were lost before they came here but everyone needs to find their own path in life and find out for themselves how to talk to women. It's just about living life, keeping things in perspective, and not letting the little things get you down. Peace out everyone, just be true to yourselves and you'll do fine
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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woah man 140 looks and 1 reply hahah. glad you can use it tho, as long as someone is inspired...:D
 

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It's a great tip, after reading it four times! Horrible structure:D get better at that.

What do you mean by using the words "it's all gravy" as in after that, it's all gravy? It sure as hell sounds stupid to me.

Gahd damn, internet persona is falling behind real life now. **** I'm lying to myself, Jay snap out of it. THanks for being here at my time of suffering "I am me" I'm sure you understand how I would feel when I know I'm betraying being myself.

JKidding, nice tip. Work on the damned structure though, come here and tell me how you did it word for word as well. I'm not only worried about women, I want other good things in my life as well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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give the guy a break....we all can see his point.
 

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Good tip. My mindset is already like that, though.
 

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Lol that's the way of things mate. Loads of people read. Few reply. Then one does and suddenly it's floods of folks doing it.

Spot the repliers. Truely they are leaders of men.

Hell replying to a topic is probibly the most alpha thing you can do.

(shhh some of the folks will believe it and we'll all get replys faster)
 

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Originally posted by Legend
give the guy a break....we all can see his point.
"HAHA dude! that was a horrible read, I understood everything you said, but you sound like a ****ing retard saying it!!!" "HAHA I wish I didn't let it get to my head" "HAHA dude your so ****ing cool" "HAHA that was so exciting, I loved to read that, that was like, something I would read over and over again"

****, Legend, I'm trying to tell him to be more exciting, I was nice when I said it, complacent actually, I just wanted to comment on this page so I could get back on and reiterate what he said in the future, that is why I even respond to any of these pages, it is safer to be angry on the internet, than it is to be in public, because on here, nobody is going to stab me, or break into my house while I sleep.

lol, replying is alpha. LMAO:crackup: I didn't see your note when I started typing! That was a hoot dude, keep it up in that direction. What you said was true, but I want you to get angry, so I can learn faster, I believe you, but it's very weak in my mind because we are laughing about it. It's like in my case, if I love a girl, I make her scream in my face that she loves me as well. Probably wrong though, since when I leave them, they call me in the middle of the night saying they will die for me if I don't take them back... hmmm. I feel like crying now.

Replying is alpha, you should make a thread on that subject. Actually call it replying, and say all the things that replying represents, and it will be precise, concise, encompassing, and funny, all at the same time. Go for it, I have faith in you!
 
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