Getting girls/women to like you isn't a job. It isn't something you do because you like to feel pressured. We all know this but sometimes we forget that women aren't the most important things in our lives so we put too much value in them. If you ever get rejected or snubbed by a girl you think is hot, just brush it off and don't let it get to your head. Know that it's all just a game and eventually you WILL get what you want: everyone does. No one is destined to live a lonely life unless they stop believing in themselves, which causes them to get their priorities out of order, which turns you into a REAL loser. Don't be a loser, get your sh1t together, just live life WITH women and not FOR women. They're just like your guy friends in the sense that they are only there to entertain you. Yeah, you gotta treat them differently than you would a guy, but when you get that down, it's all gravy. The tips on this site are a great start to those who were lost before they came here but everyone needs to find their own path in life and find out for themselves how to talk to women. It's just about living life, keeping things in perspective, and not letting the little things get you down. Peace out everyone, just be true to yourselves and you'll do fine
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Don't let it get to your head
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FunkyMillion
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I like this tip
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
It's a great tip, after reading it four times! Horrible structure
get better at that.
What do you mean by using the words "it's all gravy" as in after that, it's all gravy? It sure as hell sounds stupid to me.
Gahd damn, internet persona is falling behind real life now. **** I'm lying to myself, Jay snap out of it. THanks for being here at my time of suffering "I am me" I'm sure you understand how I would feel when I know I'm betraying being myself.
JKidding, nice tip. Work on the damned structure though, come here and tell me how you did it word for word as well. I'm not only worried about women, I want other good things in my life as well.
get better at that.What do you mean by using the words "it's all gravy" as in after that, it's all gravy? It sure as hell sounds stupid to me.
Gahd damn, internet persona is falling behind real life now. **** I'm lying to myself, Jay snap out of it. THanks for being here at my time of suffering "I am me" I'm sure you understand how I would feel when I know I'm betraying being myself.
JKidding, nice tip. Work on the damned structure though, come here and tell me how you did it word for word as well. I'm not only worried about women, I want other good things in my life as well.
MightyMate
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Structure sux as hell.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lol that's the way of things mate. Loads of people read. Few reply. Then one does and suddenly it's floods of folks doing it.
Spot the repliers. Truely they are leaders of men.
Hell replying to a topic is probibly the most alpha thing you can do.
(shhh some of the folks will believe it and we'll all get replys faster)
Spot the repliers. Truely they are leaders of men.
Hell replying to a topic is probibly the most alpha thing you can do.
(shhh some of the folks will believe it and we'll all get replys faster)
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
"HAHA dude! that was a horrible read, I understood everything you said, but you sound like a ****ing retard saying it!!!" "HAHA I wish I didn't let it get to my head" "HAHA dude your so ****ing cool" "HAHA that was so exciting, I loved to read that, that was like, something I would read over and over again"
****, Legend, I'm trying to tell him to be more exciting, I was nice when I said it, complacent actually, I just wanted to comment on this page so I could get back on and reiterate what he said in the future, that is why I even respond to any of these pages, it is safer to be angry on the internet, than it is to be in public, because on here, nobody is going to stab me, or break into my house while I sleep.
lol, replying is alpha. LMAO:crackup: I didn't see your note when I started typing! That was a hoot dude, keep it up in that direction. What you said was true, but I want you to get angry, so I can learn faster, I believe you, but it's very weak in my mind because we are laughing about it. It's like in my case, if I love a girl, I make her scream in my face that she loves me as well. Probably wrong though, since when I leave them, they call me in the middle of the night saying they will die for me if I don't take them back... hmmm. I feel like crying now.
Replying is alpha, you should make a thread on that subject. Actually call it replying, and say all the things that replying represents, and it will be precise, concise, encompassing, and funny, all at the same time. Go for it, I have faith in you!