"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dont let her do stuff. Show control.LTR

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There's a big difference between not putting up with her bullsht and unloading all of YOUR bullsht into her...

How old are you mighty jerk? You should be posting in the high school forum, the advice you give is perfect for highly inmature high school girls. Not my type, really.

But, whatever floats your boat, mighty son.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Xtravaganza

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Originally posted by MightyMate
They love man who got balls to tract them like that.
BTW, what does tract mean in this sentence? Last time I checked it wasn't a verb... Have you been to school?

Why don't you put all this advice up your anal tract :p and give us a break?
 

Jariel

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Not good. Pretty scary in fact! Sounds more like you're interested in owning a woman than being with her.

Most successful LTRs I've ever known don't work like this and most posessive guys end up living the single life.
 

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My tips are for HB8+ woman. To be with them to posses is the only option. They need man to controll them. SOrry not to mention that on start.
Of course some dont, im speaking mainly. All my tips are writtign after many years of LTRs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by MightyMate
My tips are for HB8+ woman. To be with them to posses is the only option. They need man to controll them. SOrry not to mention that on start.
Of course some dont, im speaking mainly. All my tips are writtign after many years of LTRs.

LOL :crackup:
 

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You are young. You will see in few years who were an idiot. Rookies alway think they are smart. Until You live a few years on this planet - dont think You ate all brains. The only one You might ate was monkeys.
 
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Originally posted by MightyMate
Because there is not much stuff about art of LTR on the forum im trying to keep updating with tips from me. Mainly its way harder to stay in LTR than to get laid by many chicks.
Lately i was posting about:

Getting back after beeing dumped LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91460

Ignore a little. LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90367

LTR fights
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91861

Today new lesson.
Show her that You are in control and You can not allow her to do some stuff.
She tells You she wants to go with girls for the party - say NO. It may start a fight, then You say - i feel bad when You are not here. She has no answer.

She wants some movie from videoteque. You are there together choosing, she says that she wants some lame mobvie. You just take movie that You want and borrow it.

She wants to drink on a party. You simply say no. You dont want her to be drunk.

She wants You to wear some clothes because You are meeting domeboy important for her. You wear only half of it. Like trousers that she choose, but different top.

Girl wanna stay at party. You say - lets go. Shes not coming. You say, You got 3 minutes. And keep staring at her.


There are millions of situations like that. If You act proper they gonna make girl very interested in You and letYou keep control. Thats very important in LTRS.
Some are good but some are just plain AFC obsessed control behavior. If she wants to drink cuz she's not DD then let her since you'll be there to HELP her...it's her choice anyway she doesnt tell you not to drink so you have no right to tell her that. If she's at a party and talkin to her friend it won't be smart to force her to come with you cuz her friend's opinon will later convince her to dump you.

A better example of showing control is

If on a date we already decide to see a movie and we already bought tickets she suddenly changes her mind and wants to see something else you tell her NO. If she starts b*tching then you tell her that u'll see that movie NEXT time and not THIS TIME.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A real man not only gets a woman to do his bidding, he also manipulates her to think she chose it ;)
 

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I think demonstrating a control of your own reality is infinitely more productive than attempting to control a girl like that.

I demonstrate control by chosing to approach, chosing to isolate, chosing the venue, chosing the places we're going, chosing to take her home. That's control.
 

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Yeah. You sound like you would be one of those hardout controlling husbands that other guys laugh about! cause you are so f**king posessive of your b**ch. The last thing you would want to say to your chick is to not drink because of a lame ass excuse like "I Dont want you to be drunk" what sort of an excuse if that? yeah pretty lame advise on all counts I think too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Hmmm... I wonder how the controlling LTR is going???....
 

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This might work with a girl who is genuninely submissive and either doesn't know it, or who knows it and contantly tests you, but in general, people resent being told what to do, even if it's the "right" thing. Still, if it works for this babe then good luck to you.
 
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