"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dont let her do stuff. Show control.LTR

Xtravaganza

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There's a big difference between not putting up with her bullsht and unloading all of YOUR bullsht into her...

How old are you mighty jerk? You should be posting in the high school forum, the advice you give is perfect for highly inmature high school girls. Not my type, really.

But, whatever floats your boat, mighty son.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Xtravaganza

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Originally posted by MightyMate
They love man who got balls to tract them like that.
BTW, what does tract mean in this sentence? Last time I checked it wasn't a verb... Have you been to school?

Why don't you put all this advice up your anal tract :p and give us a break?
 

Jariel

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Not good. Pretty scary in fact! Sounds more like you're interested in owning a woman than being with her.

Most successful LTRs I've ever known don't work like this and most posessive guys end up living the single life.
 

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My tips are for HB8+ woman. To be with them to posses is the only option. They need man to controll them. SOrry not to mention that on start.
Of course some dont, im speaking mainly. All my tips are writtign after many years of LTRs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MightyMate
My tips are for HB8+ woman. To be with them to posses is the only option. They need man to controll them. SOrry not to mention that on start.
Of course some dont, im speaking mainly. All my tips are writtign after many years of LTRs.

LOL :crackup:
 

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You are young. You will see in few years who were an idiot. Rookies alway think they are smart. Until You live a few years on this planet - dont think You ate all brains. The only one You might ate was monkeys.
 
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Originally posted by MightyMate
Because there is not much stuff about art of LTR on the forum im trying to keep updating with tips from me. Mainly its way harder to stay in LTR than to get laid by many chicks.
Lately i was posting about:

Getting back after beeing dumped LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91460

Ignore a little. LTR
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90367

LTR fights
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91861

Today new lesson.
Show her that You are in control and You can not allow her to do some stuff.
She tells You she wants to go with girls for the party - say NO. It may start a fight, then You say - i feel bad when You are not here. She has no answer.

She wants some movie from videoteque. You are there together choosing, she says that she wants some lame mobvie. You just take movie that You want and borrow it.

She wants to drink on a party. You simply say no. You dont want her to be drunk.

She wants You to wear some clothes because You are meeting domeboy important for her. You wear only half of it. Like trousers that she choose, but different top.

Girl wanna stay at party. You say - lets go. Shes not coming. You say, You got 3 minutes. And keep staring at her.


There are millions of situations like that. If You act proper they gonna make girl very interested in You and letYou keep control. Thats very important in LTRS.
Some are good but some are just plain AFC obsessed control behavior. If she wants to drink cuz she's not DD then let her since you'll be there to HELP her...it's her choice anyway she doesnt tell you not to drink so you have no right to tell her that. If she's at a party and talkin to her friend it won't be smart to force her to come with you cuz her friend's opinon will later convince her to dump you.

A better example of showing control is

If on a date we already decide to see a movie and we already bought tickets she suddenly changes her mind and wants to see something else you tell her NO. If she starts b*tching then you tell her that u'll see that movie NEXT time and not THIS TIME.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A real man not only gets a woman to do his bidding, he also manipulates her to think she chose it ;)
 

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I think demonstrating a control of your own reality is infinitely more productive than attempting to control a girl like that.

I demonstrate control by chosing to approach, chosing to isolate, chosing the venue, chosing the places we're going, chosing to take her home. That's control.
 

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Yeah. You sound like you would be one of those hardout controlling husbands that other guys laugh about! cause you are so f**king posessive of your b**ch. The last thing you would want to say to your chick is to not drink because of a lame ass excuse like "I Dont want you to be drunk" what sort of an excuse if that? yeah pretty lame advise on all counts I think too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Hmmm... I wonder how the controlling LTR is going???....
 

Boschy

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This might work with a girl who is genuninely submissive and either doesn't know it, or who knows it and contantly tests you, but in general, people resent being told what to do, even if it's the "right" thing. Still, if it works for this babe then good luck to you.
 
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