"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't know where to bang this chick
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
KontrollerX
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Well, I gotta do something with her before that. I can't just be like "Hey lets go to a motel and have some fun"KontrollerX said:Would a motel work?
"Hey, i know i'm a stranger, new in town, and barely know you, but do you want to have me inside you? Like ram my cack in and out of you and such?"
Works every time.
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Yeah generally its better to have the man lead and pick out a location himself but given your unique circumstances I think a little asking for help from her isn't out of the question.
That or you could go to some gas station and ask the attendant there where the fun places in town are lol.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You don't invite yourself over to a chick's house without her inviting you. That could lead to her inviting herself whenever she likes to your place without telling you when you got the other girl there.....:nervous:ChrizZ said:b) I ask her to hang out and watch a movie at her house (that's a classic)
Why can't you invite her to your place again???
cuz I live in a host family with 5 korean computer geek dudes (lol) and the walls here are really thin. So I don't want the host parents to hear screams like:DJDamage said:You don't invite yourself over to a chick's house without her inviting you. That could lead to her inviting herself whenever she likes to your place without telling you when you got the other girl there.....:nervous:
Why can't you invite her to your place again???
"Ohh Yeahh, right there baby!!!" or "Oh my GOD it's so BIG!!!!"
ChrizZ said:cuz I live in a host family with 5 korean computer geek dudes (lol) and the walls here are really thin. So I don't want the host parents to hear screams like:
"Ohh Yeahh, right there baby!!!" or "Oh my GOD it's so BIG!!!!"
You can still nail her there, just close the door, turn on the music and ask her to bite into a pillow or something. It may not be perfect but if she likes you then she will have to work with you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
zerocelcius
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Or a public place with a lot of bathrooms.
In the a$$, I guess?Don't know where to bang this chick
I.A.F.Y.B.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You drop her off at the end of the night and she should invite you in for coffee or some crappy excuse like that. If she doesn't look like she's going to offer, say you need to hang a leak in her bathroom real quick. As soon as you're in her house, it's on.
I don't have my license yet.Luscious said:Go out somewhere with her, but make sure you drive.
You drop her off at the end of the night and she should invite you in for coffee or some crappy excuse like that. If she doesn't look like she's going to offer, say you need to hang a leak in her bathroom real quick. As soon as you're in her house, it's on.