"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't know what to say? so shut the f up!

n00bPimp

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I've noticed a lot of guys here that keep f---ing themselves up because of what they said or did not say. If you're one of those guys that seem to always run out of lines, do not know what to say, or cant think of appropriate topics, heres my advice:
Dont say anything. And touch her. Touch her hands, her thighs, put your arm around her, play with her hair, etc.

When I'm with a girl, talking is only about 10% of the interaction, the other 90% is all physical contact.
I know, it can be hard to start kino, especially with someone you've just met. The best way to break the ice is starting small. Then keep on going and escalate to more physical contact.
For example when you're with a girl notice what shes wearing. Does she have a ring? Touch her ring and ask her where she got it, who gave it to her, etc while holding her hand softly examine it and if you can just keep on holding her hand.
Does she have nice hair? I've actually asked girls what kind of shampoo do they use (like I know anything about that), this is a good opportunity to run your fingers through her hair.

Find any excuse to feel her skin, parts of her body, etc. This is much more important than finding a good convo.
You can actually have physical contact with a girl for a long period of time without having to say ****. I also find physical contact to be more effective in getting them wet than a sexually stimulating convo.

So next time you're with a girl, focus more on physical contact than with using lines or sexual convos.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fbplayer06

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Your forum name does you justice...what the hell are you talking about?

Just kidding. :) This is great advice!
 

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good advice for dates, but obviously when you first meet a girl, you have to use convo.
 
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