"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't know what to say? so shut the f up!

n00bPimp

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I've noticed a lot of guys here that keep f---ing themselves up because of what they said or did not say. If you're one of those guys that seem to always run out of lines, do not know what to say, or cant think of appropriate topics, heres my advice:
Dont say anything. And touch her. Touch her hands, her thighs, put your arm around her, play with her hair, etc.

When I'm with a girl, talking is only about 10% of the interaction, the other 90% is all physical contact.
I know, it can be hard to start kino, especially with someone you've just met. The best way to break the ice is starting small. Then keep on going and escalate to more physical contact.
For example when you're with a girl notice what shes wearing. Does she have a ring? Touch her ring and ask her where she got it, who gave it to her, etc while holding her hand softly examine it and if you can just keep on holding her hand.
Does she have nice hair? I've actually asked girls what kind of shampoo do they use (like I know anything about that), this is a good opportunity to run your fingers through her hair.

Find any excuse to feel her skin, parts of her body, etc. This is much more important than finding a good convo.
You can actually have physical contact with a girl for a long period of time without having to say ****. I also find physical contact to be more effective in getting them wet than a sexually stimulating convo.

So next time you're with a girl, focus more on physical contact than with using lines or sexual convos.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your forum name does you justice...what the hell are you talking about?

Just kidding. :) This is great advice!
 

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good advice for dates, but obviously when you first meet a girl, you have to use convo.
 
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