"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sand

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hey, got another question for you all.
ok, so i met this girl through one of my friends. my friend would always be talking about her and how they like each other and what not (she has a boyfriend by the way). At the time I didn't really talk to her, but not too long ago she contacted me through facebook.
Eventually she asked for my number. We text once in a while. I Asked her what was up with her and my friend and she said that nothing was going on and that even if there was, she would not do anything because she would not want to ruin her friendship.
She has been giving me some IOIs, but i can tell she is just trying to play me. My friend since has moved on and my question is how to deal with such girls? I mean is there a way to give them a taste of their own medicine or something??
Thanks in advance!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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playerone

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Lol, if you're interested in her, game her back. If you're not the least interested, why should you bother to waste time trying to get back at people like her? That's just childish in my opinion. You could get working on other girls instead. Time is valuable.
 

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i'm a shy nice guy so what i was thinking was more in the lines of working on my game. i just don't know how to handle the situation. childish, maybe but i really need to polish my game and i thought what a great opportunity.
your right, time is valuable.
 

playerone

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You never know if she's really interested in you or just playing around. I'd game her and yeah, this is a good opportunity to field-test whatever you've read and learnt so far. Don't be afraid to blow it, go for her.
 

horaholic

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look elsewhere. there is no other answer. your life should have nothing to do with some taken chick.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sand

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Thanks for the replies!!!
Even though it's really tempting, I think your right horaholic.
 

Joe Stud

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like in fishing... throw your line in. be ****y and tease her. be flirty but yet a bit indifferent. alpha confidence always. it will hone your skills. and, if the fish takes your bait... yank on the pole!
 
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