"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey, got another question for you all.
ok, so i met this girl through one of my friends. my friend would always be talking about her and how they like each other and what not (she has a boyfriend by the way). At the time I didn't really talk to her, but not too long ago she contacted me through facebook.
Eventually she asked for my number. We text once in a while. I Asked her what was up with her and my friend and she said that nothing was going on and that even if there was, she would not do anything because she would not want to ruin her friendship.
She has been giving me some IOIs, but i can tell she is just trying to play me. My friend since has moved on and my question is how to deal with such girls? I mean is there a way to give them a taste of their own medicine or something??
Thanks in advance!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lol, if you're interested in her, game her back. If you're not the least interested, why should you bother to waste time trying to get back at people like her? That's just childish in my opinion. You could get working on other girls instead. Time is valuable.
 
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i'm a shy nice guy so what i was thinking was more in the lines of working on my game. i just don't know how to handle the situation. childish, maybe but i really need to polish my game and i thought what a great opportunity.
your right, time is valuable.
 
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You never know if she's really interested in you or just playing around. I'd game her and yeah, this is a good opportunity to field-test whatever you've read and learnt so far. Don't be afraid to blow it, go for her.
 
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look elsewhere. there is no other answer. your life should have nothing to do with some taken chick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks for the replies!!!
Even though it's really tempting, I think your right horaholic.
 
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like in fishing... throw your line in. be ****y and tease her. be flirty but yet a bit indifferent. alpha confidence always. it will hone your skills. and, if the fish takes your bait... yank on the pole!
 
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