"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dont know wat to do

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so heres the deal. ive been dating this girl for almost 2 years. ive been there for her for everything. her brother died cuz of cancer one day while i was with her. but im not sure if i like her nemore. but i just cant dump her. wat do i do??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You break up and go to college.

You aren't bound to stay with her. That feeling of guilt will quickly subside once you're unattached.
 
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im 4 years from college...which is a long ass time. wat shuld i do in the meantime?
 
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4 Years is a flash.

Break up. Unless you want to stay safe and comfortable and try to figure it out for 3 1/2 years until you realize you should have broken up.
 
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FoolsGold said:
so heres the deal. ive been dating this girl for almost 2 years. ive been there for her for everything. her brother died cuz of cancer one day while i was with her. but im not sure if i like her nemore. but i just cant dump her. wat do i do??
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Of course you can dump her. If you don't like her anymore, you end it. Don't stay in a relationship with someone you don't want. What's the point of the relationship then?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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