"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dont know wat to do

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so heres the deal. ive been dating this girl for almost 2 years. ive been there for her for everything. her brother died cuz of cancer one day while i was with her. but im not sure if i like her nemore. but i just cant dump her. wat do i do??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You break up and go to college.

You aren't bound to stay with her. That feeling of guilt will quickly subside once you're unattached.
 
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im 4 years from college...which is a long ass time. wat shuld i do in the meantime?
 
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4 Years is a flash.

Break up. Unless you want to stay safe and comfortable and try to figure it out for 3 1/2 years until you realize you should have broken up.
 
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FoolsGold said:
so heres the deal. ive been dating this girl for almost 2 years. ive been there for her for everything. her brother died cuz of cancer one day while i was with her. but im not sure if i like her nemore. but i just cant dump her. wat do i do??
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Of course you can dump her. If you don't like her anymore, you end it. Don't stay in a relationship with someone you don't want. What's the point of the relationship then?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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