"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont know if i want her back

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well my friend that is pretty good with relationships told me it was my fault i messed it up and didnt act smooth and rushed it,thats what messed it up.now im pretty girl lonely and wanted to know if there was anyway i could get her back,
first she gives me these great hugs and were still sorta friends,
second shes always poping out of nowhere just to talk for a min or two.
now what would u say to her to win her back to u.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theres not really anything you can say just to automatically win her back, but if you screwed it up real bad the first time, chances are there wont be a next time. forget her and try another girl. If you find another girl, im sure her IL will go up just a little
 
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You didn't explain much so don't expect much counsel on this situation. Leave her alone and don't beg for her attention is always the best action - do not try to win her back!!
 
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trying to "win a girl back" is the wrong attitude (AFC). so you messed up, learn from it and move on.

keep some distance from her and practice on her, with no expectations of anything.

the chances are very high you will be wasting your time with her. the time spend trying to win her back can be more productively spent working on your skills.
 
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