dont know if i want her back

[jce345]

well my friend that is pretty good with relationships told me it was my fault i messed it up and didnt act smooth and rushed it,thats what messed it up.now im pretty girl lonely and wanted to know if there was anyway i could get her back,
first she gives me these great hugs and were still sorta friends,
second shes always poping out of nowhere just to talk for a min or two.
now what would u say to her to win her back to u.

 

[fezz]

theres not really anything you can say just to automatically win her back, but if you screwed it up real bad the first time, chances are there wont be a next time. forget her and try another girl. If you find another girl, im sure her IL will go up just a little

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You didn't explain much so don't expect much counsel on this situation. Leave her alone and don't beg for her attention is always the best action - do not try to win her back!!

 

[TooColdUlrick]

trying to "win a girl back" is the wrong attitude (AFC). so you messed up, learn from it and move on.

keep some distance from her and practice on her, with no expectations of anything.

the chances are very high you will be wasting your time with her. the time spend trying to win her back can be more productively spent working on your skills.