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don't know if i should waste my time

socalrunner

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so theres this girl i met at the gym at my school...we had alot in common she gave me her number, we went out on a date that went fairly well. (she asked me on the date and gave me her number without me asking)

we talked online/met up a couple times in the next few weeks nothing too much, as i could tell she wasent as interested as before the date.

she goes to a formal with a diff guy, i didnt go nor asked her.

my roomate is dating her good friend, so i just learned that:
some other guy asked her to formal via a card and she told my roomates gf that he was a joke and laughed at him.

also, she brags about picking up guys and then dropping them.

so recently she asked me to go on a double date to the beach with my roomate, his gf, her and me.

is it even worth my time?
she told her friend that she wasent interested in me and she was just doing it for her friend.

yet, she keeps flirting with me and wanting to hang out...

i am so confused.
 

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Phyzzle

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If you're confused, the last thing you need is a double date where she spends the whole time talking to her girl friend while you stay confused.

I'd tell them you can't make it to the beach. Later, call this chick up and ask her out.

On the other hand:

I'm guessing she's almost definitely not interested. So there's no reason to be confused. Just go to the beach to hang with friends, and don't expect anything from this chick.
 

socalrunner

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thanks for the opinions so far....does anyone have any ideas what i can do to possibly make her interested once again? anything at all that could be a positive to a girl of her nature....she is def a HB9....and she is really really nice to me the only negative stuff ive heard about her was through others...nothing ive learned/seen myself
 
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