"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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don't know if i should waste my time

socalrunner

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so theres this girl i met at the gym at my school...we had alot in common she gave me her number, we went out on a date that went fairly well. (she asked me on the date and gave me her number without me asking)

we talked online/met up a couple times in the next few weeks nothing too much, as i could tell she wasent as interested as before the date.

she goes to a formal with a diff guy, i didnt go nor asked her.

my roomate is dating her good friend, so i just learned that:
some other guy asked her to formal via a card and she told my roomates gf that he was a joke and laughed at him.

also, she brags about picking up guys and then dropping them.

so recently she asked me to go on a double date to the beach with my roomate, his gf, her and me.

is it even worth my time?
she told her friend that she wasent interested in me and she was just doing it for her friend.

yet, she keeps flirting with me and wanting to hang out...

i am so confused.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Phyzzle

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If you're confused, the last thing you need is a double date where she spends the whole time talking to her girl friend while you stay confused.

I'd tell them you can't make it to the beach. Later, call this chick up and ask her out.

On the other hand:

I'm guessing she's almost definitely not interested. So there's no reason to be confused. Just go to the beach to hang with friends, and don't expect anything from this chick.
 

socalrunner

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thanks for the opinions so far....does anyone have any ideas what i can do to possibly make her interested once again? anything at all that could be a positive to a girl of her nature....she is def a HB9....and she is really really nice to me the only negative stuff ive heard about her was through others...nothing ive learned/seen myself
 
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