"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Recently there's been a rash of posts on this site about how some guy's girlfriend is breaking up with him, showing him disrespect, or generally just being a bytch.

It's been said before, but I'll say it again. DON'T KISS THEIR ASS.

You should stand up for what's right. I hear some of you talk about "losing out on a good woman"...that's bullshyt!!!!!

If she were really that good, or interested in you, she wouldn't let you walk.

Most guys are way too nice and supplicating towards women. They think they'll never get another woman. Let me tell you something... THERE ARE PLENTLY OF OTHER WOMEN, YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY ELSE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU THINK YOU WON'T.

Women get off on the guy chasing them. DON'T DO IT. Let them sit and stew with it and ignore them.

Treat them with the same disrespect they show you. Don't act cordial...if they want to talk to you..tell them to fvck off. You don't play games, and if they do, they can play them with someone else.

I don't like to be rude to people, but some women don't understand any other kind of behavior. Somehow you have to show disdain towards them before they realize you're not putting up with their ****.

This does not mean be abusive towards women, it means keep your distance when they start acting like brats. Don't reward them for shytty behavior.

Women know that they have the upper hand in the dating game, but if you know how to handle their shyt tests, you become the one with the upper hand.


DON'T TOLERATE DISRESPECT; LEAVE HER, AND IGNORE HER.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I had lots of problems with an LTR of 2 years.
I didn't take any crap from her.
When she left me because I didn't take any crap, I was gutted of course.
But a month later I bumped into her and there is NO WAY I would ever go out with her if I'd just met her.

It goes to show that when you're with someone you see them through a lovestruck haze and not for what they really are...or in this case, what they became over time.
 
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You're most likely better off. Go find yourself a woman who really cares about you. Leave the selfish bytches for the AFC's.......
 
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You're most likely better off. Go find yourself a woman who really cares about you. Leave the selfish bytches for the AFC's.......
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good shyt right there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Recently there's been a rash of posts on this site about how some guy's girlfriend is breaking up with him, showing him disrespect, or generally just being a bytch.

It's been said before, but I'll say it again. DON'T KISS THEIR ASS.

You should stand up for what's right. I hear some of you talk about "losing out on a good woman"...that's bullshyt!!!!!

If she were really that good, or interested in you, she wouldn't let you walk.

Most guys are way too nice and supplicating towards women. They think they'll never get another woman. Let me tell you something... THERE ARE PLENTLY OF OTHER WOMEN, YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY ELSE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU THINK YOU WON'T.

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For the most part, I agree. The problem is that most guys that supplicate don't feel worthy enough to just walk away so they are always working with that fear of loss mentality. A lot of times its not that the woman is not worth it and that's why she walks away, it is usually the guy is not worth it.

She will not respect you just because you think she should. You need to get to WORK ON YOURSELF AND LEARN TO BE A MAN who commands respect from people, specially women. How about you become the man who "She can't afford to loose and have walk away."

This will be very hard if you yourself don't feel worthy, and getting bad advice from people here, specially other women, is not going to be good for you. If this happens to you consistently, it is not the women, it is you who needs to grow and make changes.
 
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