"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Recently there's been a rash of posts on this site about how some guy's girlfriend is breaking up with him, showing him disrespect, or generally just being a bytch.

It's been said before, but I'll say it again. DON'T KISS THEIR ASS.

You should stand up for what's right. I hear some of you talk about "losing out on a good woman"...that's bullshyt!!!!!

If she were really that good, or interested in you, she wouldn't let you walk.

Most guys are way too nice and supplicating towards women. They think they'll never get another woman. Let me tell you something... THERE ARE PLENTLY OF OTHER WOMEN, YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY ELSE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU THINK YOU WON'T.

Women get off on the guy chasing them. DON'T DO IT. Let them sit and stew with it and ignore them.

Treat them with the same disrespect they show you. Don't act cordial...if they want to talk to you..tell them to fvck off. You don't play games, and if they do, they can play them with someone else.

I don't like to be rude to people, but some women don't understand any other kind of behavior. Somehow you have to show disdain towards them before they realize you're not putting up with their ****.

This does not mean be abusive towards women, it means keep your distance when they start acting like brats. Don't reward them for shytty behavior.

Women know that they have the upper hand in the dating game, but if you know how to handle their shyt tests, you become the one with the upper hand.


DON'T TOLERATE DISRESPECT; LEAVE HER, AND IGNORE HER.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had lots of problems with an LTR of 2 years.
I didn't take any crap from her.
When she left me because I didn't take any crap, I was gutted of course.
But a month later I bumped into her and there is NO WAY I would ever go out with her if I'd just met her.

It goes to show that when you're with someone you see them through a lovestruck haze and not for what they really are...or in this case, what they became over time.
 
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You're most likely better off. Go find yourself a woman who really cares about you. Leave the selfish bytches for the AFC's.......
 
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You're most likely better off. Go find yourself a woman who really cares about you. Leave the selfish bytches for the AFC's.......
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good shyt right there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Recently there's been a rash of posts on this site about how some guy's girlfriend is breaking up with him, showing him disrespect, or generally just being a bytch.

It's been said before, but I'll say it again. DON'T KISS THEIR ASS.

You should stand up for what's right. I hear some of you talk about "losing out on a good woman"...that's bullshyt!!!!!

If she were really that good, or interested in you, she wouldn't let you walk.

Most guys are way too nice and supplicating towards women. They think they'll never get another woman. Let me tell you something... THERE ARE PLENTLY OF OTHER WOMEN, YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY ELSE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU THINK YOU WON'T.

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For the most part, I agree. The problem is that most guys that supplicate don't feel worthy enough to just walk away so they are always working with that fear of loss mentality. A lot of times its not that the woman is not worth it and that's why she walks away, it is usually the guy is not worth it.

She will not respect you just because you think she should. You need to get to WORK ON YOURSELF AND LEARN TO BE A MAN who commands respect from people, specially women. How about you become the man who "She can't afford to loose and have walk away."

This will be very hard if you yourself don't feel worthy, and getting bad advice from people here, specially other women, is not going to be good for you. If this happens to you consistently, it is not the women, it is you who needs to grow and make changes.
 
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