I DONT GET IT. This girl i'm trying to get, we are cool with each other and all but there will be days( i ono why) when she just not talk to me, and just ignores me. For example we walk to some classes together and in those days she won't, and she will not speak to me for the rest of the day. UGH, i'm totally owned.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dont ****ing get it!
- Thread starter Oni
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Enigma2517
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LOL, same here man. Except its getting better for me. Uhh I don't even know what to say but I've definetely learned a lot in the past two-three weeks. Lets just say that women r enigmatic 
. Maybe shes tired? Maybe shes on her period? Two most obvious ones...but of coure that can't be true all of the time. In fact, its usually something completely random and irrelevant. So don't worry about it.
I don't really think the whole Ganji thing works...I'd recommend a more subtle version. Acknowledge her precense. Trust me lol I screwed that up this monday. Almost pretended like she wasn't there. Not great. If you're on even OK terms say hi to her, maybe give her a glance or two, etc. If she starts talking to you definetely respond in a kind yet nonchalant manner. Don't spend too much time talking to her though. Sound semi-interested and make sure you're the one who breaks off the conversation first (once again, nicely but at the same time firmly). She'll come around. If you really want to confuse her try alternating days when you do and do not give her attention
. Maybe shes tired? Maybe shes on her period? Two most obvious ones...but of coure that can't be true all of the time. In fact, its usually something completely random and irrelevant. So don't worry about it.I don't really think the whole Ganji thing works...I'd recommend a more subtle version. Acknowledge her precense. Trust me lol I screwed that up this monday. Almost pretended like she wasn't there. Not great. If you're on even OK terms say hi to her, maybe give her a glance or two, etc. If she starts talking to you definetely respond in a kind yet nonchalant manner. Don't spend too much time talking to her though. Sound semi-interested and make sure you're the one who breaks off the conversation first (once again, nicely but at the same time firmly). She'll come around. If you really want to confuse her try alternating days when you do and do not give her attention
Dukester
Master Don Juan
you are worrying. never worry, cuz that makes you turn AFC. you are here to not do that right?
it's probably not b/c of u, she doesnt talk, so again, dont worry. you are over-rationalizing
make the move to talk to her, get her to open up to u. just watch out for the "friend zone" trap
it's probably not b/c of u, she doesnt talk, so again, dont worry. you are over-rationalizing
make the move to talk to her, get her to open up to u. just watch out for the "friend zone" trap