I DONT GET IT. This girl i'm trying to get, we are cool with each other and all but there will be days( i ono why) when she just not talk to me, and just ignores me. For example we walk to some classes together and in those days she won't, and she will not speak to me for the rest of the day. UGH, i'm totally owned.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dont ****ing get it!
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Enigma2517
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LOL, same here man. Except its getting better for me. Uhh I don't even know what to say but I've definetely learned a lot in the past two-three weeks. Lets just say that women r enigmatic 
. Maybe shes tired? Maybe shes on her period? Two most obvious ones...but of coure that can't be true all of the time. In fact, its usually something completely random and irrelevant. So don't worry about it.
I don't really think the whole Ganji thing works...I'd recommend a more subtle version. Acknowledge her precense. Trust me lol I screwed that up this monday. Almost pretended like she wasn't there. Not great. If you're on even OK terms say hi to her, maybe give her a glance or two, etc. If she starts talking to you definetely respond in a kind yet nonchalant manner. Don't spend too much time talking to her though. Sound semi-interested and make sure you're the one who breaks off the conversation first (once again, nicely but at the same time firmly). She'll come around. If you really want to confuse her try alternating days when you do and do not give her attention
. Maybe shes tired? Maybe shes on her period? Two most obvious ones...but of coure that can't be true all of the time. In fact, its usually something completely random and irrelevant. So don't worry about it.I don't really think the whole Ganji thing works...I'd recommend a more subtle version. Acknowledge her precense. Trust me lol I screwed that up this monday. Almost pretended like she wasn't there. Not great. If you're on even OK terms say hi to her, maybe give her a glance or two, etc. If she starts talking to you definetely respond in a kind yet nonchalant manner. Don't spend too much time talking to her though. Sound semi-interested and make sure you're the one who breaks off the conversation first (once again, nicely but at the same time firmly). She'll come around. If you really want to confuse her try alternating days when you do and do not give her attention
Dukester
Master Don Juan
you are worrying. never worry, cuz that makes you turn AFC. you are here to not do that right?
it's probably not b/c of u, she doesnt talk, so again, dont worry. you are over-rationalizing
make the move to talk to her, get her to open up to u. just watch out for the "friend zone" trap
it's probably not b/c of u, she doesnt talk, so again, dont worry. you are over-rationalizing
make the move to talk to her, get her to open up to u. just watch out for the "friend zone" trap