"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't have access to flax oil? Use olive oil in post workout shake!

spesmilitis

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My dinning commons doesn't have any flax oil, so I decided to squirt some olive oil into my post workout shake today. I thought it wouldn't go well, but I can tolerate it to get some healthy fats in. Well, i'm trying it, and its friggin good.

There is the taste of olive oil, but it surprisingly goes well with sweet flavor of the whey. The added fat probably makes it more enjoyable too. Feels closer to a milkshake now.

Yum!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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... Why do you want fat in your post-workout shake when a) insulin is high and b) you want quick-absorbing nutrients?
 

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whey + carbs yes.

fat slows down digestion (delaying the nutrient transportation into the muscle cells and thus recovery) and also may be stored as bodyfat in the presence of high insulin. plus the body burns its own fat after a workout, it won't do so if you give it other fat to burn.
 

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Thanks for the info, I'm on it.

I just remembered that my nutrition professor said a meal of protiens+fats is the slowest to digest. So the olive oil may slow down the protien absorption also.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Protein+fats is the slowest to digest, he's right. But why would you want slow digestion after a workout and add to your recovery time?
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Protein+fats is the slowest to digest, he's right. But why would you want slow digestion after a workout and add to your recovery time?
Yeah, I was adding to your point.
 

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Well, I just learned that post workout: protien and carbs
Preworkout: lots of complex carbs, healthy fats, protien (although I heard some athletes reccomend no carbs pre-workout. Only carbs that should be takken preworkout are fruits)
Rest of the meals: carbs/protien/fat

Also, some people recomend no carbs before sleep, I havn't looked into that too much though.
 

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WBA-- i've heard that Whey gives a pretty big insulin spike if taken on it's own, especially since it's quick in and quick out of the body. So for taking it (other than PWO) wouldn't it be best to mix fat in with it? How much fat per gram of protein is the best to maximize digestion time and keep my body with a healthy supply of protein all day/night?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, mix fat with your whey to slow absorption. Whole eggs or oil or peanut butter or whatever fits your diet best. I'd go with 10-20g of fat to slow digestion. So 2-3 eggs or a tbsp of oil or 2 tbsp peanut butter..
 
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