LOL. Prove it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't go out and spend money at bars and clubs ..
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I already have(proof you got game), this guy is a total idiot jimmney cricket
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Spot on.
Really funny when I see some dorks in school become big and become bouncers. Mentality? They know it and I know it....
Me? I did the door in OZ for a while. if @ubercat wants to grill me on that, he's free to do it.......I know the OZ well.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've too many doubts about your height, therefor it's an issue.
It's a chink in your confidence. "am I good enough?" screams "I'm not good enough"
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Cosign this sentiment entirely. Whatever you are OWN it. If you waver you already lost.
Saw a great quote by Mae West the other day. She said:
"A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald, but if he has fire women will like him"
She also said:
"It's not about the men in your life...it's about the life in your men"
And those statements are why the average DJ does better in real life. In real life a man can show his personality and his passion.
Online dating strips these dimensions out of interactions. Get the girl out on a date guys.
I work in a bar. I have for years. Been in every role: Bartender, Security, Busboy (There is no DJ). Best job you could have is busboy. If you have a nice boss you can actually get ****-faced which makes talking to customers 10x easier. If the place is packed with loud music, being sober is really gonna give you heart palpitations.
I have ****ed 1 in the bathroom. Been blown by one around the corner. Fingered at least 2 or 3 others in the middle of the crowd. (I'm talking sex during working hours).
Got 2 girlfriends out of it. 1 was a colleague, the other a customer.
Also probably taken home or been taken home by at least 10 girls. Just off the top of my head. 1 Aussie, 1 dutch, another dutch, 1 Norwegian. 1 Indian. 1 Dominican. 1 German. Can't remember the rest.
But that doesn't mean I can't just as easily snag a girl while going out to other bars. I have fvcked butt-ugly girls and also recently a 9/10. And I met the 9/10 in another bar.
It doesn't really matter if you're working in the bar or going there as a customer. The most important thing is your energy while in the club.
The best lays I've ever gotten -----------> Is right after I already just banged a hot girl. You don't need to work in a club. They are just attracted to a man who's standing in the club and enjoying himself. The plus-side of working there is that you don't need a wing-man. The entire club is your wing-man.
I am in my last year of engineering right now though and I can't wait until I get that degree. I'll be earning 10x what I'm earning now, then I can buy expensive clothing, get a rolex and take women to expensive clubs. Or go to expensive clubs and actually have some relevant status in life.
I like the nightlife, but really it's a tiny little world. Same club week in week out. Sleeping all day. Up all night. Don't get to see regular people doing regular chores. And the alcohol.... There is no intellectual stimulation. I really want to get that engineering degree now so that I can get to work and make real money. It's also hard to keep high quality women, because high-quality women are doing important **** like making money, reading books and exploring places to go as well. They don't go to the same place every weekend.
What I notice is that if a girl likes you though she'll come back to the venue. Most likely they drop by twice. If you don't make a move the second time, then they're gone. Those are the ones you can make a GF out of (I'm speculating), because they are consciously coming back and not just acting out of impulse.
I have ****ed 1 in the bathroom. Been blown by one around the corner. Fingered at least 2 or 3 others in the middle of the crowd. (I'm talking sex during working hours).
Got 2 girlfriends out of it. 1 was a colleague, the other a customer.
Also probably taken home or been taken home by at least 10 girls. Just off the top of my head. 1 Aussie, 1 dutch, another dutch, 1 Norwegian. 1 Indian. 1 Dominican. 1 German. Can't remember the rest.
But that doesn't mean I can't just as easily snag a girl while going out to other bars. I have fvcked butt-ugly girls and also recently a 9/10. And I met the 9/10 in another bar.
It doesn't really matter if you're working in the bar or going there as a customer. The most important thing is your energy while in the club.
The best lays I've ever gotten -----------> Is right after I already just banged a hot girl. You don't need to work in a club. They are just attracted to a man who's standing in the club and enjoying himself. The plus-side of working there is that you don't need a wing-man. The entire club is your wing-man.
I am in my last year of engineering right now though and I can't wait until I get that degree. I'll be earning 10x what I'm earning now, then I can buy expensive clothing, get a rolex and take women to expensive clubs. Or go to expensive clubs and actually have some relevant status in life.
I like the nightlife, but really it's a tiny little world. Same club week in week out. Sleeping all day. Up all night. Don't get to see regular people doing regular chores. And the alcohol.... There is no intellectual stimulation. I really want to get that engineering degree now so that I can get to work and make real money. It's also hard to keep high quality women, because high-quality women are doing important **** like making money, reading books and exploring places to go as well. They don't go to the same place every weekend.
What I notice is that if a girl likes you though she'll come back to the venue. Most likely they drop by twice. If you don't make a move the second time, then they're gone. Those are the ones you can make a GF out of (I'm speculating), because they are consciously coming back and not just acting out of impulse.