Don't go out and spend money at bars and clubs ..

[RangerMIke]

I used to bounce when I was in college for about 6 months in the off season, until the coach found out and I had to quit or leave the football team. You will learn more about human nature and women I one-month of bouncing then you will learn in 10 years of general dating.

I had 3 months after I graduated before reporting on active duty, so to kill time I bounced with a friend at a strip club. This is where I learned just how fvcking stupid men could be... there was this one guy, I'll never forget him, his name was Ed Graves... he was some kind of high powered Chemical Engineer that was making into 6 figures (which in 1988, was a lot of money). The chicks there were all over him when he came in... God only knows how much money that dude spent... but he was a good customer... super nice, never gave ANYONE ANY trouble. The girls there would tell them their troubles and he would spend money to fix them. He bought one a car, another an air-conditioner, paid an dentist bill for one chick's kid. He was mister money bags... and as far as I know never got anything from them but an occasional peck on the cheek and a back rub.

One night he stayed til closing and he was hammered. He didn't have any money left that I could tell so I looked at his Driver's Licence and took him home. The poor idiot was living in a one bed-room apartment with almost no furniture... a lawn-chair in from of a TV in the 'living room', the dinning room was just a pile of books on the floor, his bed-room was just a mattress on the floor with a clock radio... The only thing I remember seeing in the kitchen was a coffee pot.

This guy was spending ALL his money on these freaking strippers. Who of course were just taking his money. I guess he was happy... he would come in the club and he was a celebrity of sorts there who am I to judge. The strippers would share their tips with the bouncers, especially if you had to deal with difficult customers, so I'm pretty sure Ed's money bought me my Pioneer Car Stereo.

 

[The Duke]

I know a mid 40's decent looking guy that tends bar at a nice hamburger grill/bar type place. He has no problem getting girls half his age. None of them are 9's, but he gets girls he wouldn't get outside of that bar. Most of these girls aren't going places either.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I used to bounce when I was in college for about 6 months in the off season, until the coach found out and I had to quit or leave the football team. You will learn more about human nature and women I one-month of bouncing then you will learn in 10 years of general dating.

I had 3 months after I graduated before reporting on active duty, so to kill time I bounced with a friend at a strip club. This is where I learned just how fvcking stupid men could be... there was this one guy, I'll never forget him, his name was Ed Graves... he was some kind of high powered Chemical Engineer that was making into 6 figures (which in 1988, was a lot of money). The chicks there were all over him when he came in... God only knows how much money that dude spent... but he was a good customer... super nice, never gave ANYONE ANY trouble. The girls there would tell them their troubles and he would spend money to fix them. He bought one a car, another an air-conditioner, paid an dentist bill for one chick's kid. He was mister money bags... and as far as I know never got anything from them but an occasional peck on the cheek and a back rub.

One night he stayed til closing and he was hammered. He didn't have any money left that I could tell so I looked at his Driver's Licence and took him home. The poor idiot was living in a one bed-room apartment with almost no furniture... a lawn-chair in from of a TV in the 'living room', the dinning room was just a pile of books on the floor, his bed-room was just a mattress on the floor with a clock radio... The only thing I remember seeing in the kitchen was a coffee pot.

This guy was spending ALL his money on these freaking strippers. Who of course were just taking his money. I guess he was happy... he would come in the club and he was a celebrity of sorts there who am I to judge. The strippers would share their tips with the bouncers, especially if you had to deal with difficult customers, so I'm pretty sure Ed's money bought me my Pioneer Car Stereo.

Sure his name wasn't Neil....?

 

[guru1000]

How many 20 year olds have the capital to fund a club? at least if you gonna tell this guru give him the game lol

506 exemption = Private funding raised by investors.

You don't need money. You need hustle.

 

[machoMax]

So don't be another drunk phaggot in the club with a button up shirt and Sperry loafers on, yelling for no damn reason to get girls..
Get paid to get laid..

This makes sense.

 

[Solomon]

506 exemption = Private funding raised by investors.

You don't need money. You need hustle.

You probably have a higher chance of getting an angel investor for an all girls school than nightclub

easier said than done

 

[guru1000]

You probably have a higher chance of getting an angel investor for an all girls school than nightclub

easier said than done

Limitations in your paradigms Solo? Let me know how this thinking served you in the next 10 years.

 

[Solomon]

Limitations in your paradigms Solo? Let me know how this thinking served you in the next 10 years.

Nah, I'm just a realist, I'm not gonna tell a kid to do a 508 exemption on a nightclub when he probably has no clue what that means or the process that entails (or that 90% of nightclubs close in less than 5 years)

All i'm saying is if you gonna give a kid advise at least give him more deails

No beef just keeping it a buck, you know you one of my mentors on this site

 

[guru1000]

My only intent is to plant a seed in any young man reading this thread. If any reader has enough desire in him, that seed could catalyze into something great.

It's not up to me; the reader must ultimately choose for himself. I wrote dozens of posts delineating game plans; though lost to deaf ears. A man with enough desire will make it a priority to get involved, learn, push, hustle, grind, and tear the ends of the earth to effect his will. All I need to do is simply plant a seed of consciousness.

 

[Urbanyst]

THE KBJing just never stops does it?

I got a buddy who does the lights at one of the most popular clubs in the state

he's in his 30's he's an average looking guy. about 5'7 but he bangs hot chicks (7s-9s) all the time with minimal effort

Girls come up to him he get's their numbers and than he sets up the lay that night or the next day it's that easy.

Only reason why I never did this, is cause I probably would get bored and drink on the job lol and at this stage in my life I can't be bothered going to clubs even for money or some skank coochie

He does it part time, why not just for the chicks it's easy money and it gives him experience as the light guy. Some of the top guy's in his industry easily make 6 figures. He already is the light guy for the top club in the state he's well on his way

Not saying it can't be effective in your 30's and 40's. BUT anyone with a real career doesn't have time for a part time job like that. I know I don't. Rather spend my free time socializing, exploring my city and meeting women.

Plus, club women are generally trash lol.

 

[BeExcellent]

It's all about your thinking and what you believe is possible. It's ALL about that and that alone.

Sure you can be a bouncer or a DJ or a bartender and you'll accomplish 2 things.

1. You'll have great social proof & get girls

2. You'll met owners, promoters, influential people & you'll see how the business runs

Now which item is more valuable to your long term outcomes gentlemen?

I assure you it's #2. You leverage who you meet & what you learn and the sky's the limit. But few people utilize the information in 2. to their advantage.

Right now I have a real estate deal I'm hustling. It's a bigger deal than I can swing on my own & it's too big for my private investor too. But he & I are hustling. It's cash flowing well and can be bought at 50% off AMV.

PM me guru if your curious.

 

[soulforge]

I know a bouncer who is about 5'8 but he is jacked to high heaven .. He probably is 230 with 8% body fat..

So.do you think I have a chance at 5ft8.. Or give up on the idea? I,m pretty jacked too

 

[Good Gao]

One BIG problem @cola

It is borderline impossible to get these jobs, especially bartender!

You need experience to be a bartender but it is impossible to get experience. Only way to get a shot is barback but that is the trash guy!

If you work full time and are trying to build a career, it is impossible to get this as a second job because bars will only hire people who can be ready at any time.

Bouncer? Better be spec ops or well trained, or just insanely huge (6'4 minimum with muscles).

Unless you have a guide on how to break in, I don't see how this thread is all that helpful.

 

[Good Gao]

Not saying it can't be effective in your 30's and 40's. BUT anyone with a real career doesn't have time for a part time job like that. I know I don't. Rather spend my free time socializing, exploring my city and meeting women.

Plus, club women are generally trash lol.

Socializing? As if you have much of a social life worth bragging about.

Meeting women? They all pale in comparison to what you would get in nightlife.

The reality is you would hardly meet fun cool people after college anywhere else outside of nightlife. No, the old married cuck and the "young professional" who is a slave to his paycheck is not cool, neither is the loser who peaked in college and is now fat with kids and a wife. So the reality is you're "socializing" with losers.

Even if it is "successful" people, they are not the ones who can put you in touch with hot girls or a fun life, they're politically correct cucks who can get you a promotion at work and that is it, not people you can meet hot girls or live a fun life through.

As for meeting women, you're meeting washed up trash. The hot girls are all going to guys in nightlife or guys with value out of this world (handsome and very rich), not some 9 to 5 rat with a wage.

You have nothing to lose, especially not you.

I think you live a rather mediocre boring life with no hot girls yet somehow have the guts to give advice on here and try to come off as a credible source, STFU.

You're not spending your free time, you're wasting it.

 

[Urbanyst]

Socializing? As if you have much of a social life worth bragging about.

Meeting women? They all pale in comparison to what you would get in nightlife.

The reality is you would hardly meet fun cool people after college anywhere else outside of nightlife. No, the old married cuck and the "young professional" who is a slave to his paycheck is not cool, neither is the loser who peaked in college and is now fat with kids and a wife. So the reality is you're "socializing" with losers.

Even if it is "successful" people, they are not the ones who can put you in touch with hot girls or a fun life, they're politically correct cucks who can get you a promotion at work and that is it, not people you can meet hot girls or live a fun life through.

As for meeting women, you're meeting washed up trash. The hot girls are all going to guys in nightlife or guys with value out of this world (handsome and very rich), not some 9 to 5 rat with a wage.

You have nothing to lose, especially not you.

I think you live a rather mediocre boring life with no hot girls yet somehow have the guts to give advice on here and try to come off as a credible source, STFU.

You're not spending your free time, you're wasting it.

Don't make me laugh lol.

You're obviously clueless if you believe the only place to meet HOT women or FUN people is nightclubs lol. One of the DUMBEST things anyone has ever said on this forum to my knowledge. This is what perpetual partying and drug use do to your brain bro lol. Makes you post ignorant horse sh*t like your post above.

HOT women can be found in many diverse places. Ever go hiking? Yoga? Nightclubs are generally for trashy women who happen to be hot. Nothing wrong with that, but its not the only game in town.

You're obviously broke because if you had MONEY you could afford to buy a clue lol.

 

[Julian]

Don't make me laugh lol.

You're obviously clueless if you believe the only place to meet HOT women or FUN people is nightclubs lol. One of the DUMBEST things anyone has ever said on this forum to my knowledge. This is what perpetual partying and drug use do to your brain bro lol. Makes you post ignorant horse sh*t like your post above.

HOT women can be found in many diverse places. Ever go hiking? Yoga? Nightclubs are generally for trashy women who happen to be hot. Nothing wrong with that, but its not the only game in town.

You're obviously broke because if you had MONEY you could afford to buy a clue lol.

Dont you guys realize the girls at the clubs are the SAME ones at the gym the mall the coffee shop the hiking trail etc. Women are social as fuk and even the good ones go out to downtown nightlife venues. You are ignorant if you think otherwise. Yeah theres the trash thats out every weekend of course, but the rest are just the regular girls you see everyday.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Inspired by this thread, I went to a local joint last night who I know are hiring weekend staff. Put my CV in this morning. Just been offered trial shift on Saturday. Supplementary income and paid socialising, here we come.

Cheers @cola

 

[machoMax]

Inspired by this thread, I went to a local joint last night who I know are hiring weekend staff. Put my CV in this morning. Just been offered trial shift on Saturday. Supplementary income and paid socialising, here we come.

Cheers @cola

Great !

 

[Julian]

meh. nightlife world is BORING. you really enjoy being surrounded by demons and scum just to "get paid" some chump ass change. no offense but bouncers dont make chit, are easily replaced and get fked up in fights or end up getting stomped out/stabbed/whatever. nightclub managers are the greasiest mofos you will meet and the dj is usually the most down to earth.

dont be the sperry wearing phaggot screaming in a shirt, dont be the sleazy manager banging drugged up sloots, dont be the tough guy bouncer whos fate is getting fked up eventually..and dont be a soulless club drone or thinks going out and being in the nightlife scene is the end all be all of the world. realize its hollow and scummy and keep your distance from places of the devils work. the crazy chit ive seen managing strip clubs and working as a promoter for events and nightclubs is the stuff you dont wanna deal with.

getting robbed at gunpoint and blown away with a 12 guage shotty isnt worth it. being framed for rape is not a walk in the park. extortion from gangs and criminals and dealing with violent drunks nightly will JADE the fuk out of you and slowly drain your soul. trust me bros its not glamour it aint glitzy. Its not bad to be exposed to the dark underbelly of society so that you can realize whats going on behind the scenes. but i wouldnt recommend it as a career option. do it for a bit to stack some chips, and then bugout when you can fly more legit working for yourself or for a reputable business thats doing something positive.

your better off staying in more wholesome environments or chill upper class lounges rubbing elbows with the "civilized"..especially with how ratchet our instagram society has gotten.

Thats my opinion you can take it or leave it. Yeah there is alot of oppurtunity out there but be willing to realize what you are sacrificing to be in that scene. you can heed my warning or find out for yourself.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

meh. nightlife world is BORING. you really enjoy being surrounded by demons and scum just to "get paid" some chump ass change. no offense but bouncers dont make chit, are easily replaced and get fked up in fights or end up getting stomped out/stabbed/whatever. nightclub managers are the greasiest mofos you will meet and the dj is usually the most down to earth.

dont be the sperry wearing phaggot screaming in a shirt, dont be the sleazy manager banging drugged up sloots, dont be the tough guy bouncer whos fate is getting fked up eventually..and dont be a soulless club drone or thinks going out and being in the nightlife scene is the end all be all of the world. realize its hollow and scummy and keep your distance from places of the devils work. the crazy chit ive seen managing strip clubs and working as a promoter for events and nightclubs is the stuff you dont wanna deal with.

getting robbed at gunpoint and blown away with a 12 guage shotty isnt worth it. being framed for rape is not a walk in the park. extortion from gangs and criminals and dealing with violent drunks nightly will JADE the fuk out of you and slowly drain your soul. trust me bros its not glamour it aint glitzy. Its not bad to be exposed to the dark underbelly of society so that you can realize whats going on behind the scenes. but i wouldnt recommend it as a career option. do it for a bit to stack some chips, and then bugout when you can fly more legit working for yourself or for a reputable business thats doing something positive.

your better off staying in more wholesome environments or chill upper class lounges rubbing elbows with the "civilized"..especially with how ratchet our instagram society has gotten.

Thats my opinion you can take it or leave it. Yeah there is alot of oppurtunity out there but be willing to realize what you are sacrificing to be in that scene. you can heed my warning or find out for yourself.

My dad is in the gas station business. This sounds typical of the type of **** he has to go through. Yeah it sucks and he's almost been killed a few (many) times but it's all apart of the deal. He's jaded towards certain people but not everyone. You just gotta learn to separate work life from family/social/other parts of your life. He did say that it's not for everyone though, and both of his brothers weren't able to handle it (one of them is too hot headed and the other is an idiot). I think it depends on what type of person you are. But there's plenty of other sh!tty jobs out there.