"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't give women room to play games

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bigpapa

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Depends , the problem with being super direct from the get go means that a girl will have to take a decision if yes or no very early on

as women are not really taking risks , a maybe girl most of the times will be a no , even if maybe 50% or more of them would have been a yes after a while

thus , you are loosing more than you are getting

Game means turning maybe girls into hell yeah girls
 

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You think a girl isn’t going to **** test you if you’re direct?lol Boy are you in for a rude awakening. You can drop her, but I promise the average girl has way more options than the average guy. You’ll never get out of this by not playing the game, you just have to decide how much of the game you’re willing to play.
 

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Depends , the problem with being super direct from the get go means that a girl will have to take a decision if yes or no very early on

as women are not really taking risks , a maybe girl most of the times will be a no , even if maybe 50% or more of them would have been a yes after a while

thus , you are loosing more than you are getting

Game means turning maybe girls into hell yeah girls

I agree theres been times where being super direct has worked and saved me a lot of headaches and hassle but also crashed and burned hard with girls ive "wanted" to date

I think girls just have too many options to comply with males being logically direct these days if she says no to you so what theres 100 others in the wings
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree theres been times where being super direct has worked and saved me a lot of headaches and hassle but also crashed and burned hard with girls ive "wanted" to date

I think girls just have too many options to comply with males being logically direct these days if she says no to you so what theres 100 others in the wings
The girls that you wanted to date may well have just wasted your time and then rejected you anyway if you had gone indirect.
 
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