"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't give women room to play games
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Georgepithyou
Banned
A maybe girl isn't magically going to turn around and develop high interest in you.
as women are not really taking risks , a maybe girl most of the times will be a no , even if maybe 50% or more of them would have been a yes after a while
thus , you are loosing more than you are getting
Game means turning maybe girls into hell yeah girls
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
I agree theres been times where being super direct has worked and saved me a lot of headaches and hassle but also crashed and burned hard with girls ive "wanted" to date
I think girls just have too many options to comply with males being logically direct these days if she says no to you so what theres 100 others in the wings
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
bat soup
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The girls that you wanted to date may well have just wasted your time and then rejected you anyway if you had gone indirect.