Any of you ever gotten this line before? Her bf is in another state, and when me and her run into each other she always asks me to come hang out with her. Last time we did she initiated some heavy kino, wanted to wrestle, took off her bra under her shirt cuz she wanted a back rub (but not before I made her give me one). And askin me questions about this girl I'm seeing and getting annoyed when I bring her up. Giving me compliments about my looks and telling me I am a terrific friend and that she loves me. And the wierdest question of all was "have you ever cried over a girl?". Seemed to be making future plans too by askin me what movies are out that I wanted to see. Anyways, what's your guys opinions, thoughts, anythings on this?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Don't give up on me, we might break up"
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
GrandMaster
Don Juan
I suggest you use MAVEC aka mental kino (mental arousal via eye contact) and the voice stuff, like talking real slow and seductive. (check GGTW's post on this)
look deep into her eyes and ask:
"do you want to kiss me now or later?"
(leaves her no option to say NO, just now or later).
Don't even wait for the answer and kiss her. --> there you are.
look deep into her eyes and ask:
"do you want to kiss me now or later?"
(leaves her no option to say NO, just now or later).
Don't even wait for the answer and kiss her. --> there you are.
StringShredder
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"Enough lame guys in this world already do a whole lot of waiting around for girls who are not taken. And I'm supposed to wait around for one who is taken. Hmm!"
"You're fooling around with me, but might break up with your boyfriend? Hmm, something tells me I'd hate to be your boyfriend."
"Yes, I cried over a girl before! She had a boyfriend, but strung me along. That taught me to be careful with my feelings, especially in situations like that."
"You're fooling around with me, but might break up with your boyfriend? Hmm, something tells me I'd hate to be your boyfriend."
"Yes, I cried over a girl before! She had a boyfriend, but strung me along. That taught me to be careful with my feelings, especially in situations like that."
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I agree. Now that you see how she treats one boyfriend, would you really wanna be with her and have her screw around behind your back later on?
You should never have the scarcity mentality as if that was the only girl out there. You are very close to being put in a relationship that will start out uneven because she will be the one who will be choosing you after she is tired of her bf.
It's like its being framed on her terms. You should turn it around and tell her if she wants to be with you to dump her boyfriend and be with you, if she doesn't do that tell her you're no longer interested.
You should never have the scarcity mentality as if that was the only girl out there. You are very close to being put in a relationship that will start out uneven because she will be the one who will be choosing you after she is tired of her bf.
It's like its being framed on her terms. You should turn it around and tell her if she wants to be with you to dump her boyfriend and be with you, if she doesn't do that tell her you're no longer interested.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
I also agree, I was in the same situation about a year ago while i was still AFC. If she treats her current boyfriend like crap, what makes you think she is going to treat you any better if you become her boyfriend?
Take it from someone who learned the hard way
Take it from someone who learned the hard way
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
MAN she had a BF. Don't be a part of her kaniving ways. Ask for her BF's # and call his ass and tell him his GF is a HO.
He has a right to know he is with a hooker. I am sick of girls like that. Get away from her and let her cheat on him with sombody else.
He has a right to know he is with a hooker. I am sick of girls like that. Get away from her and let her cheat on him with sombody else.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
If you could have this chick (BF or no BF) you would have her by now. Real Men don't wait. I would also disregard anything she says to you on an emotional level because its always situation and never meant for her to stand by them unlike the honour system for men.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
MacDiddy pretty much summed up my view on the situation. The problem is you're trying too hard and pressuring this girl into breaking up with her bf which only makes you look weak. When she does break up with him(if ever) it will be on her terms not yours. My advice would be to just continue what you're doing without nagging her to break up with her BF. Continue to pull away and be a challenge.
Mark my words, if she wants you she'll continue to chase you. Don't chase her. Waiting and chasing women with BF's is the epitome of AFC.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.