Any of you ever gotten this line before? Her bf is in another state, and when me and her run into each other she always asks me to come hang out with her. Last time we did she initiated some heavy kino, wanted to wrestle, took off her bra under her shirt cuz she wanted a back rub (but not before I made her give me one). And askin me questions about this girl I'm seeing and getting annoyed when I bring her up. Giving me compliments about my looks and telling me I am a terrific friend and that she loves me. And the wierdest question of all was "have you ever cried over a girl?". Seemed to be making future plans too by askin me what movies are out that I wanted to see. Anyways, what's your guys opinions, thoughts, anythings on this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"Don't give up on me, we might break up"
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
GrandMaster
Don Juan
I suggest you use MAVEC aka mental kino (mental arousal via eye contact) and the voice stuff, like talking real slow and seductive. (check GGTW's post on this)
look deep into her eyes and ask:
"do you want to kiss me now or later?"
(leaves her no option to say NO, just now or later).
Don't even wait for the answer and kiss her. --> there you are.
look deep into her eyes and ask:
"do you want to kiss me now or later?"
(leaves her no option to say NO, just now or later).
Don't even wait for the answer and kiss her. --> there you are.
StringShredder
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"Enough lame guys in this world already do a whole lot of waiting around for girls who are not taken. And I'm supposed to wait around for one who is taken. Hmm!"
"You're fooling around with me, but might break up with your boyfriend? Hmm, something tells me I'd hate to be your boyfriend."
"Yes, I cried over a girl before! She had a boyfriend, but strung me along. That taught me to be careful with my feelings, especially in situations like that."
"You're fooling around with me, but might break up with your boyfriend? Hmm, something tells me I'd hate to be your boyfriend."
"Yes, I cried over a girl before! She had a boyfriend, but strung me along. That taught me to be careful with my feelings, especially in situations like that."
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I agree. Now that you see how she treats one boyfriend, would you really wanna be with her and have her screw around behind your back later on?
You should never have the scarcity mentality as if that was the only girl out there. You are very close to being put in a relationship that will start out uneven because she will be the one who will be choosing you after she is tired of her bf.
It's like its being framed on her terms. You should turn it around and tell her if she wants to be with you to dump her boyfriend and be with you, if she doesn't do that tell her you're no longer interested.
You should never have the scarcity mentality as if that was the only girl out there. You are very close to being put in a relationship that will start out uneven because she will be the one who will be choosing you after she is tired of her bf.
It's like its being framed on her terms. You should turn it around and tell her if she wants to be with you to dump her boyfriend and be with you, if she doesn't do that tell her you're no longer interested.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
I also agree, I was in the same situation about a year ago while i was still AFC. If she treats her current boyfriend like crap, what makes you think she is going to treat you any better if you become her boyfriend?
Take it from someone who learned the hard way
Take it from someone who learned the hard way
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
MAN she had a BF. Don't be a part of her kaniving ways. Ask for her BF's # and call his ass and tell him his GF is a HO.
He has a right to know he is with a hooker. I am sick of girls like that. Get away from her and let her cheat on him with sombody else.
He has a right to know he is with a hooker. I am sick of girls like that. Get away from her and let her cheat on him with sombody else.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
If you could have this chick (BF or no BF) you would have her by now. Real Men don't wait. I would also disregard anything she says to you on an emotional level because its always situation and never meant for her to stand by them unlike the honour system for men.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
MacDiddy pretty much summed up my view on the situation. The problem is you're trying too hard and pressuring this girl into breaking up with her bf which only makes you look weak. When she does break up with him(if ever) it will be on her terms not yours. My advice would be to just continue what you're doing without nagging her to break up with her BF. Continue to pull away and be a challenge.
Mark my words, if she wants you she'll continue to chase you. Don't chase her. Waiting and chasing women with BF's is the epitome of AFC.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.