"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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don't give a girl your email address!

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00Kevin

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A big mistake for any DJ is to give a girl your email address.
why do I say this?

well I just made that mistake with a girl. I sent her a few jokes and now she can simply send me emails in lieu of calling me back. I have hit her answering machine 3 times now and each time she just gets on her computer sends me an email back.. "sorry, I missed you again bla bla bla" . This girl has just put herself in nextdom.

Now, if you meet girls online then quickly close down your email address and only use the phone. Tell them that your computer is broken and you are not allowed to send emails at work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Nah Kevin it's all good.

You just gotta know when USE e-mail, savvy? ;)

It's OK to give her your E-mail after you know her for a while.

Just don't use it too often.
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yes after you know her for a while is fine, but it will just hurt you if you are pursuit mode.
 
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The phone is always the best way. I get her number, I never give out mine. My personal cell phone number is entrusted to only a few people.
 
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